Bheartedgirl Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Hey guys.. Ex contacted me last night at 10:30pm saying: are u sending anything to my work tomorrow!? Meaning for V day.. I ignored and then a minute later got one saying: why won't u answer me.. And then a minute later one saying: fckn seriously..!? And I ignored all 3..
gator12 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 You did the right thing, he is finally figuring out what life is like without you. He assumes you're sending him something, I find that so funny, and now he's left with no reply. EGO CRUSHED, lol good job. And assuming you want him back you dont break NC until he is syaing he wants to get back together with you, no matter what he says before them. Or if you want to move on, just don't break it at all. Stay strong. -Gator
Author Bheartedgirl Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 I'm trying.. But don't wanna make him angry.. Why would he expect a reply? He has been ignoring me for 2 months and all of a sudden wants me to reply to him.
gator12 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 It might make him upset, but at this point you can't consider that, especially if you want to get back together with him. My ex got really sad when I didn't reply to her, I could hear it in her voice. But she still kept trying to contact me, a little bit of ignoring is needed. He needs to know that he doesn't have control of you anymore. I know it's hard but you can do it. -Gator
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