BringThaNoise Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 I met this girl at the beginning of the school year and we became friends. A few weeks later we began to become closer. Like we hung out more during and after school. Throughout all of this, there were many times I should've asked her out, but I never did. At that time, the timing wasn't really right. There was a recent family death and some family drama. After all of that stuff died down though, I did ask her out, but it was like 3 weeks after when I should've. So when I asked her out, she turned me down because she thought I saw her as more of a friend and I guess she slowly began to push me away. I mean I knew she really liked me and it was obvious. All of her friends would always ask me when I was going to ask her out and I think they thought I was just dragging her around. So for the next few days I left her alone. Then one day she just comes over and breaks down emotionally saying that she needs me and we began going out. When we began going out though, some previous family drama resurfaced as well as some other things. We only dated for a week before she ended it. I mean she said she never stopped liking me, but she thought I was never serious about ther relationship and that I was pretending to like her, like it was a game. I treated her more as a friend rather than a girlfriend. I mean the week we were dating, I didn't really text her that much or talk to her after school. A lot of stuff was bothering me and I let it get to me and I was kind of depressed. So the enxt week I go to talk to her and she was a mess. Like she ended our relationship on impulse and she said it was just something she had to do. She's always thought that I was perfect and for some reason she's always knocking herself down saying she doesn't deserve me. Like the last guy she dated treated her bad and she took him back so many times and he just screwed her over and over again. So when I asked for another chance, she said she couldn't pretend to have a relationship with me because sh never felt like we ever had one and it didn't feel like we were dating. Like she never thought I cared. So for the next month I tried telling her that she meant a lot to me and that I did care, but that just irritated more. I mean she hates clingy people that chase after her because that's all she's ever known. I mean I never chased after her and that's why she liked me so much. All of her previous boyfirends just dragged her around and used her and never really liked her. In the end, I guess she got that impression with me. Someone that was just trying to get her to have her. As of now, our relationship ended 2 and a half months ago. I've been in NC for about 2 weeks. I've never told her the entire story about why I acted the way I did. I kind of just brushed it aside. Even though we only dated for a week, we spent three months together as really close friends. Before when we talked, I acted on pure emotion because of everything going on at the time. I know I didn't treat our realtionship how it should've been treated. I didn't treat her like my girlfriend and I know that. Should I try to talk to her a final time to straighten everything out?
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