AlexisMacabre Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 hello i thought i should introduce myself first. my name is alexis, im 20 years old, a mother to a 2 year old little boy and im also married but as of last saturday im am now separated again... you see last summer we had gotten into a bad argument and it ended up with a lot of mean names and things that were really hurtful. well this time we broke up again cause we got into another argument after only 5 months of being reconciled. anyways its only been a week since weve been separated and i havent been doing the NC thing but since we have a son together its gunna be kinda tough to do so but i said i was only gunna talk to him if it had anything to do with my son, well on monday he had him that evening till thurdsay and we hadnt talked at all his mom had contacted me to pick our son up so i didnt talk to him at all until thursday morning he had texted me and well we spoke about stuff we had to talk about and thats it, so he didnt text me anymore till yesterday and he only asked about our son and thats it so im thinking thats pretty good so far. but im gunna be coming here for some advice and just to get my mind off him when i start to breakdown. we deleted eachother from twitter and facebook so no contact there either. the last time we were separated he begged me back but this time when he does if he even does im not gunna give in so easily. thanks for reading.
2011 Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 well this time we broke up again cause we got into another argument after only 5 months of being reconciled. Was it a mutual break or did one of you break it off? 2011
Author AlexisMacabre Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 Was it a mutual break or did one of you break it off? 2011 The last time he broke it off with me and asked me to take him back 2 months later and this time it was all him again. I don't understand him at times cause he's very difficult and doesn't really show much emotion :/ but I'm not gong to be the one begging him for anything at all.
Am4Real Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 You're twenty years old, you're married (now apart) and responsible for a two-year old child. No insult to you but you're barely an adult yourself (by legal age) and this is one heck of a situation to be in let alone the confusion about your husband. For the sake of yourself and your young one, see if you can find councelling or other social services that will help you prioritize next steps and ground you emotionally as well as prepare your home for single parenthood or whatever is ahead. Best wishes, Am4Real
Author AlexisMacabre Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 Hi Alexis, Is he also in his early 20's? Yes he's 2 weeks older than me
Author AlexisMacabre Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 You're twenty years old, you're married (now apart) and responsible for a two-year old child. No insult to you but you're barely an adult yourself (by legal age) and this is one heck of a situation to be in let alone the confusion about your husband. For the sake of yourself and your young one, see if you can find councelling or other social services that will help you prioritize next steps and ground you emotionally as well as prepare your home for single parenthood or whatever is ahead. Best wishes, Am4Real No insult taken and yes I agree right now I'm with my parents staying with him since he was the only one working. We got married because he had gone to boot camp for the marines but he got hurt so he was discharged. I feel like I'm in a huge pickle but I'm not letting this bother me at all. I've been pretty strong so far and know I can take charge of my life and move forward I just want him to contact me about our son being a single parent isn't any trouble since he was hardly there anyways.
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