lola88 Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 I broke up with my boyfriend this weekend and I miss him so much. A bit of background, we've been together 2 and a half years and I love him so much, I know he loves me and he treats me well. The problem is he's 24 and won't get his licence which means I have to drive everywhere and even just to see him and hang out on weekends, it's up to me to go down to his place. Also, he didn't graduate highschool which makes it extremely difficult to get a good job. We've faught about these things countless times but he always says he's going to do stuff and never does, how long am I supposed to wait. So I ended it and now I feel awful, I miss him so much and I know that's normal but I feel like I made a mistake, maybe he would have changed if I didn't push him all the time. I don't know what to do, it's taking everything in me not to text or call him and say how much I miss him but i realize that's not fair to him and it will just make it harder for both of us to get over it.
gator12 Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 Well if you don't want to get back together with him you do nothing. He will be the one to text you after he's moved on. If you want to date again then the ball is in your court since you are the dumper. Idk, the guy doesn't sound like a very good influence lol, just my thoughts. -Gator
Am4Real Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 I broke up with my boyfriend this weekend and I miss him so much. A bit of background, we've been together 2 and a half years and I love him so much, I know he loves me and he treats me well. The problem is he's 24 and won't get his licence which means I have to drive everywhere and even just to see him and hang out on weekends, it's up to me to go down to his place. Also, he didn't graduate highschool which makes it extremely difficult to get a good job. We've faught about these things countless times but he always says he's going to do stuff and never does, how long am I supposed to wait. So I ended it and now I feel awful, I miss him so much and I know that's normal but I feel like I made a mistake, maybe he would have changed if I didn't push him all the time. I don't know what to do, it's taking everything in me not to text or call him and say how much I miss him but i realize that's not fair to him and it will just make it harder for both of us to get over it. We all set our own standards for what we accept and not accept in every situation, relationship, job, whatever... Some of us enforce these standards while others let them slip, roll over and moan about life. What are your standards? Are you enforcing them or letting others dictate your life? I think when you answer those questions you will be aware of what to do or not do... Good luck and best wishes, Am4Real
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