honeychile71 Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 Once again I am spiralling deeper into the abyss of this love triangle. It has tangled a nasty web that I can't seem to get out of. A man that I new for 5 months 43 years old,. He's 11 years my senior. He told me that he wanted to move on from his ex girlfriend because of their constant fighting and arguing. But I'm starting to see other. He is still pursing her and recently the girlfriend jumped on my car and went to the police and said he tried to hit her with a car. He got arrested. I bailed him out. He continued the pursuit of her. He told me finally that he still has feelings and love for her and that he's trying not to hold on and that he wants to move on. His actions doesn't say this because he meets with her and talks to her on the phone. My heart is hurting over this because I put so much energy in trying to win his heart. He told me this morning that it he was moving on from her and that she now has a new boyfriend who she is going to try to work it out with. Meanwhile these two both have to go to court over her accusation about him hitting her with the car. What makes this even more potent is I told them both that I was pregnant out of hurt and he feels that this is the main reason why he really has no wins in being with her. So I need to find out a way to get out of this. I feel now I want out. There's nothing in this for me. He doesn't love me, but he won't leave me alone so that he can pursue her 24 hours. I think I'm just some type of security blanket. Please help me. Link to post Share on other sites
jessydog Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 He's using you to fall back on so get rid of him quick you cant force him to love you so you will be better off without him. it sounds to me that he has no regard for you or your feelings and is only using you in an attempt to make his ex jealous. find someone who deserves you. good luck in solving your problems and good luck in the future with or without this man. Link to post Share on other sites
Arabess Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 DUMP HIM girl....before she decides she wants him and he dumps you. Link to post Share on other sites
DebraLee Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 He is a wastin your time girlie. Set yourself free from his problems with his Ex. You can't fix his life for him. Until he is on his own for awhile and he get's things bakc in order I would leave him be. In the meantime, keep yourself busy so you don't get all wrapped up into his issues. If he's worth it he'll wait for you then. Link to post Share on other sites
Girlie Posted March 25, 2004 Share Posted March 25, 2004 It sounds like you are a security blanket. If he still has feelings for this woman, my advice would be to move on. He may say he wants to move on from her, but he's not actually doing it. That's what counts. Link to post Share on other sites
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