Manbearpig Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 So I dated this girl for half a year and the relationship was nice but we then mutually broke up because we felt like we had nothing in common. She was pretty much the one who convinced me the break up was right but i agreed with her. We didn't contact for 2 weeks then she texts me saying ''hi what are you doing'' and i text her ''i'm doing really good thanks, i've totally moved on and i'm starting to like someone else but i still love you and i want to be your friend''. I got no response. 3 weeks after that i text her saying ''good morning how are you?'' and she automatically texts back showing me a picture of her new boyfriend shirtless, the text said ''this is my new boyfriend'' i congratulate her by telling her i'm glad that she moved on too and that i'm glad she's happy, she then replies with this.. ''he's someone more attractive than you, he's my man and he's perfect''.. I decided not to text back to think about it but for the most part i acted mature and calm and non jealous about the situation.. At first i was slightly offended because when i was dating her she said i was attractive all the time, but now i wonder if she's just trying to make me jealous.. Why would she want to make me jealous to begin with?
Sazerac Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Because she's immature? Honestly, do not initiate any more texts with her or respond to hers. She is using you to boost her ego. Go NC and move on--she's history.
700miles Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 TOTALLY trying to make you jealous. But, a pathetic attempt. No woman in a happy relationship would even consider sending a photo and comments like that to an ex! She's obviously not so happy...more like insecure! Glad you've moved on, 'cause she's so not worth it.
Lucky_One Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 She just upped the ante from your original answer. Because face it - saying "I've totally moved on to a new woman in 2 weeks" is sort of a slap in the face. And then adding "I still love you" is totally lame, because if you REALLY loved her, you wouldn't have moved on in 2 weeks, and you wouldn't really want to just be her friend. Pic is probably not a real BF, and she did it just to tick you off. Because she texted you for the first time after a break-up and said "Hi", and you texted back "I've got a new BF in just 2 weeks, and I am going to say that I love you, but I really don't - and I really never did." She just gave you a little tit for your tat.
Author Manbearpig Posted February 13, 2011 Author Posted February 13, 2011 To be honest i still love her, in a friend kind of way... Besides she seemed to stop showing interest in me the same day she broke up, her facebook a week after the break up said ''i'm single, hit me up''.. So i figured she was totally over me before she broke up.
Author Manbearpig Posted February 13, 2011 Author Posted February 13, 2011 And that shirtless guy in the pic is real, i saw pics on her facebook of her kissing him, like no joke 10 pictures of them kissing.
lavalamp Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Wow, I think you made the right move in breaking up. That sort of stuff is really petty and childish.
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