Manbearpig Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 So I dated this girl for half a year and the relationship was nice but we then mutually broke up because we felt like we had nothing in common. She was pretty much the one who convinced me the break up was right but i agreed with her. We didn't contact for 2 weeks then she texts me saying ''hi what are you doing'' and i text her ''i'm doing really good thanks, i've totally moved on and i'm starting to like someone else but i still love you and i want to be your friend''. I got no response. 3 weeks after that i text her saying ''good morning how are you?'' and she automatically texts back showing me a picture of her new boyfriend shirtless, the text said ''this is my new boyfriend'' i congratulate her by telling her i'm glad that she moved on too and that i'm glad she's happy, she then replies with this.. ''he's someone more attractive than you, he's my man and he's perfect''.. I decided not to text back to think about it but for the most part i acted mature and calm and non jealous about the situation.. At first i was slightly offended because when i was dating her she said i was attractive all the time, but now i wonder if she's just trying to make me jealous.. Why would she want to make me jealous to begin with?
D78 Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 Your ex sounds immature. It's obvious she was trying to upset you. I have no idea why. Maybe her text was an attempt to reconcile, and she was hurt when you said you moved on, so she responded to your text in a hurtful way? If I were you, I would never text her again
K.K. Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 She asked you how you were doing and you said "great I've totally moved on". (man...next time just say fine.) Of course that made her mad and feel stupid when she probably texted to say she missed you. So she seethes with hate thinking of revenge for 3 weeks when it hits her to send you a shirtless pic of some guy she probably lifted from Google telling you he's her boyfriend and so much better than you. Now you're asking if she did that to make you jealous. Um well... yes. Yes she did. Classic! The games we play huh?
Author Manbearpig Posted February 13, 2011 Author Posted February 13, 2011 I wasn't playing games, but i really do love her in a friend sort of way.
Author Manbearpig Posted February 13, 2011 Author Posted February 13, 2011 And she REALLY is dating the shirtless guy, which makes me wonder what the hell is going on
depplover_1980 Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 Be honest with yourself over why you want to stay friends with her? It's not very often we stay friends with our ex's for this very reason. Let more time pass and move on with your life.
Author Manbearpig Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 Guess i no longer want to be interested in being her friend, thanks everyone. Just one more thing... What if she wasn't trying to make me jealous? And was stating that i was too ugly for her?
Chi townD Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Guess i no longer want to be interested in being her friend, thanks everyone. Just one more thing... What if she wasn't trying to make me jealous? And was stating that i was too ugly for her? REALLY? Okay...insecure much?
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