MrsDamaged Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Last night I was so done with this marriage I can't keep fighting. He left last night to a friends place, I texted hime saying if he doesn't want to fix this and he wants out that he needs to move out so me and the kids can start to heal. This morning I asked him if he got my texts he said Yes, I said so you have nothing to say ! He said I have been saying it for weeks you don't listen. Basically saying our marriage is over. I said fine then when are you moving out. He said why do I have to leave this is my home. Well this is my home too and my kids home and I'm not leaving. So what do I do now? He won't move out , and I'm not going to move out . So I keep living like this, the only thing it is killing me . I want more then anything to fix my marriage His reasons for not wanting to fix it , is because of something I did 14 years go! When I had a one night stand. I told him that was so long ago and we have been together ever since. He says he thought he could live with it now he can't. He says that is all he sees when he looks at me. I have a hard time believing this is why he wants this marriage to end. Cause it has been 14 years. I told him we can fix it, if he would let me in enough to show him I love him and adore him that I can make new memories with him and those bad ones will fade. He doesn't think that is possible. I asked him what do you have to lose by trying. He said everything , have no idea what he means by that! Asked him what him what he has to gain . He says a Fairytale Life. What in the world do I do ? I hate this I what more then anything to fix this but I can't get through to him and if he doesn't want this then he needs to move. I told him you want out then you need to leave. He said yeah that is how it works in your world not mine. I know one thing I'm not moving ! Please help before I seriously go nuts !
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