justletgox51 Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Guys, I'm just so curious as to what your definition is of moving on from your exes. I'm very confused because everyday I tell myself, "I'm over him," but when I see him, it's like it's back to square 1. /: So any input as to what is the true meaning of 'I'm moving on", "I've moved on."
gator12 Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Here's how I define it. One fact is love takes a loooooooooooong time to go away in some cases, that's just the fact. I consider myself moved on when I am okay with living my life without my ex and know that I am happy without them. I could still have that hope that they may come back but I don't cling to it. It's kind of a whatever happens attitude. My head reaches moved on first obviously, that hope that remains is my love. Love doesn't die so easily. Now this is where I am with my ex, and although I want her back I don;t wake up obsessing over it. I do miss her sometimes but I know that I can live without her. Idk, most people say it's when you lose all love for them but that takes a long time to get too and for some people you never will completely by that def. hope it helps, -Gator
PelicanPete Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Yea Gators post sums it up pretty much. Your ex will always be a person you opened up to and cared about so the goal isn't to completely eliminate those feelings, its just basically for you to be able to shine without them, and be happy by yourself. Some days are better then others of course but just take it day by day and what I find makes it easier is to try to focus on improving yourself as a person in some way or another, new hobby or look or perspective etc.
mridul_chajilee Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 @Gator,bro best definition. Anyway i m also trying to move on but i dont knw even the meaning of move on,this bloody memory never escape from me but i try to manage it by hanging out with friends,sometimes i take Anxiolytic drug even.Move on reffers to do something sothat your mind stay aside from those memories,better plan a project work or if you are a worker then its very easy to move on coz all day u are busy with office.But its difficult to move on if u are a student.Better surf the net and join some forum and do something there.And also try to change ur bad deeds and help other,go to church,temple,maszid for ur mind peace.And thats all i think.Hope it will help you.Thanks.
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