HalfAlive22 Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Hello all! Just wanted to update on my situation. Making the decision to leave my serial cheating husband has been so freeing there are not enough words. I remember when I found out everything he had done, how desperate I was to keep him, I know now a lot of it was ego, and not letting the latest "OW" win. Yes some of it was that I love him, wich I do, but not enough to only live "half alive" wich is what I was doing. The tables have turned so drastically. He begged and cried on his knees the other night, that he had changed and wanted our marriage again, that he is in love with the 15 year old girl still that he knows is still there...bla bla bla! guess what? she's gone, and grown into a women...a new women, who is strong and independent, and can be treated much better than this! Never again will I be called names, never again will I be cheated on by him, never again will I snoop through a phone, or computer, or wonder if he's working late, or if he saw her at work today! It feels like a weight has lifted off my shoulders. I start school in the fall, and am moving on! I will always have him in my heart, for he was my first love, and the father of my children, but I now know, there is a lot more out there for me tx for listening!...btw...getting all dressed up and going out dancing with the girls!! woo hoo!
seren Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Glad to hear things are working out for you and that you are starting a new life. Congratulations on starting school. I hope all continues to be good for you and yours.
Summer Breeze Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Hello all! Just wanted to update on my situation. Making the decision to leave my serial cheating husband has been so freeing there are not enough words. I remember when I found out everything he had done, how desperate I was to keep him, I know now a lot of it was ego, and not letting the latest "OW" win. Yes some of it was that I love him, wich I do, but not enough to only live "half alive" wich is what I was doing. The tables have turned so drastically. He begged and cried on his knees the other night, that he had changed and wanted our marriage again, that he is in love with the 15 year old girl still that he knows is still there...bla bla bla! guess what? she's gone, and grown into a women...a new women, who is strong and independent, and can be treated much better than this! Never again will I be called names, never again will I be cheated on by him, never again will I snoop through a phone, or computer, or wonder if he's working late, or if he saw her at work today! It feels like a weight has lifted off my shoulders. I start school in the fall, and am moving on! I will always have him in my heart, for he was my first love, and the father of my children, but I now know, there is a lot more out there for me tx for listening!...btw...getting all dressed up and going out dancing with the girls!! woo hoo! Do you know what I love? You wrote that beautiful post without ever once saying somsething really bad about your exH or the OW. You made it all about you and how you've made it. You grew up and you went beyond everything. You're not in here basking in their post A misery-you're basking in your post A rebirth. You go. I hope you danced the night away and had a whale of a time. 1
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