somedude81 Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 There are a couple of girls that I took a class with last year. I talked to them before class every once in a while but never attempted any moves or to hang out with either one of them. I reconnected with both at yesterday's club meeting after no contact for about two months. I'm thinking about asking both of them out but I don't know if that ship has sailed already and if it would be too weird. BTW, I don't know if it matters, but the girls are friendly with each other, they talk to each other when in the same place. Although I don't think they actually hang out or are anything more than classroom buddies.
mo mo Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 It's really hard to know what either of them think in this situation with the description you gave. That said, don't ever think the ship has sailed. I have found and reconnected with classmates YEARS after they knew me in class and they were very interested in dating me. They would later confess they always had crushes on me.
carhill Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 No success in this realm but IMO just do what you want to do. Either the response will be positive or it will be negative. Regardless of which, you can put the ambiguity to rest. Good luck
PurpleReign Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Careful. If you ask them both out and they end up talking about it, you could lose your chance with both. Good luck.
Author somedude81 Posted February 13, 2011 Author Posted February 13, 2011 I wonder how much they would talk if they did at all. Both girls were in the same class with me last year. There was a 3rd girl in that class that I did ask out and spend some time with. I don't think anybody knew that we were hanging out. Anyways I'll try next week. Wost case scenario is nothing more than temporary embarrassment and some facebook defriendiation.
Els Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 Careful. If you ask them both out and they end up talking about it, you could lose your chance with both. Good luck. I second this. Wrt your OP, I see no problem with that. Happened to me, was cool.
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