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Do men often feel more able to commit with a girl who is only average looking?


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I'm talking about down to earth gorgeous girls. Not dolled up girls.

i don't know any "down to earth" gorgeous girls

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i don't know any "down to earth" gorgeous girls

 

I do.

 

Thanks to the ten character rule, I'll add my next post in here:

 

All of the gorgeous girls I've known, have never had trouble attracting men. My cousin was married at twenty-one, and was never without a boyfriend before that. Another girl, at the age of sixteen, had a cute, committed, stable boyfriend who wanted to marry her. Yet another one has been happily involved with someone for almost ten years now, married for the past few years, and has male friends telling her that they're in love with her. At least one of them made sure that the guys knew they were interested, and let the men actually do the pursuing.

 

My sister has men go all soppy over her, but has been with the same man for almost fourteen years. I could go on... another beautiful lady just came to mind. Never had a problem with dating or having anyone want to marry her - she had one unhappy marriage, but is still friends with that ex, and is now married to the love of her life.

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Sad that these misconceptions do exist. So is it reasonable to say that men tend to moreso play it safe with girls in attempt to cover there asses instead of giving the really stunning girl the benefit of the doubt?

If you were a hunter and you only had a knife, would you try to go after the goat or the elephant? Its human nature to aim toward something whose odds are for them rather than against them.

 

Also its another human nature that people want to feel secure. People generally dont like instability in their lives.

 

Anyway, as much as I dont think that beautiful people should be judged by their looks, I have to say they are also partially at fault. Just because no one initiates interaction with you, doesnt mean you cant initiate it yourself. Instead of whining that no one wanna talk to you because you are beautiful, why dont you take the initiative and talk to people and let them know that you are actually a nice person.

 

As for commitment, if we are already in a relationship, I can tell whether someone can be trusted or not regardless her physical appearance.

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I'd bet if the men are good looking, they'll be more likely to get out of a relationship faster. if the guy is much less attractive than the girl, then I'd say he'd have a propensity to stay in the relationship moreso than if he was dating someone of equal attractiveness.

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I'd bet if the men are good looking, they'll be more likely to get out of a relationship faster. if the guy is much less attractive than the girl, then I'd say he'd have a propensity to stay in the relationship moreso than if he was dating someone of equal attractiveness.

The one who has more to offer tends to be the less committed. Thats just nature.

 

People are just as faithful as their options.

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