Author mo mo Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 what to do.. what to do... OMG OMG OMG
Nexus One Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Well she definitely tried to get your attention. If you like her you could go for it.
bayouboi Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 hmm i'd tap the breaks unless she asks to borrow a pencil
Nexus One Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 I just realized you might have been joking around. Are you?
Author mo mo Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 hmm i'd tap the breaks unless she asks to borrow a pencil Yea that's what I was thinking.
chloe56 Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Oh Nexus, would you like to borrow some paper off me?
Author mo mo Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 I just realized you might have been joking around. Are you? No, not joking. She really did say hi to me. Actually this isn't the first time we've made contact. I joined her for lunch yesterday. She is the quiet type--she's usually either reading a book or listening to music in the cafeteria. But yesterday I talked to her for a bit. I learned she has a valentine, but it's "just a friend". It's a guy she used to date a while back but she isn't really into him like that. Then she asked me if I had a valentine..
chloe56 Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Just joking with you Nexus. Erm, mo mo, what to say, just go for it.
Author mo mo Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 Just joking with you Nexus. Erm, mo mo, what to say, just go for it. Yea.. I'm thinking next time I see her I'm gonna ask her about that valentine, and if he's gonna try to cockblock me when I start kicking it to her.
GooseChaser Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Yea.. I'm thinking next time I see her I'm gonna ask her about that valentine, and if he's gonna try to cockblock me when I start kicking it to her. Hm, well, you could do that, but if I were you I would focus more on her and less on the guy. You already know that they aren't together and that she isn't into him that way (according to her). Knowing these things and that she expressed interest in you, ie. asking if you had a valentine, it seems like you have a clear green light to make a move. Go for it with confidence! It would impress her! That's what I think.
Author mo mo Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 Hm, well, you could do that, but if I were you I would focus more on her and less on the guy. You already know that they aren't together and that she isn't into him that way (according to her). Knowing these things and that she expressed interest in you, ie. asking if you had a valentine, it seems like you have a clear green light to make a move. Go for it with confidence! It would impress her! That's what I think. Roger that. Manning up and gathering the balls to engage.
SmileFace Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Did she ask you for a penc.... oh wait nevermind . That was already asked.
Knittress Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Posts like this really just make me laugh. Same with the missed connections section on craigslist. I had no idea guys were THIS flustered by women. Think of all the chaos we cause in our wake!
Author mo mo Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 Posts like this really just make me laugh. Same with the missed connections section on craigslist. I had no idea guys were THIS flustered by women. Think of all the chaos we cause in our wake! Well I am quite mature and experienced when it comes to dealing with women, so I kinda was just playing around with this thread. That said, she is pretty hot, and I actually looked for her today (long before she said hi to me, this was earlier in the day) and when I actually did see her I froze up a bit. Not many women do that to me.
Nexus One Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Posts like this really just make me laugh. Same with the missed connections section on craigslist. I had no idea guys were THIS flustered by women. Think of all the chaos we cause in our wake! You girls and women have no idea. When we fall in love we're wired to lose control internally. On the outside we try to play it cool, but on the inside we go bloody insane, to the point we get annoyed by ourselves.
SmileFace Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 You girls and women have no idea. When we fall in love we're wired to lose control internally. On the outside we try to play it cool, but on the inside we go bloody insane, to the point we get annoyed by ourselves. Wait , really?
Nexus One Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 (edited) Wait , really? Yes SmileFace, really. I don't think men and women differ that much mentally when it comes to falling in love, I think the process is roughly similar. Except due to our testosterone I think men come across tougher than they feel internally. Edited February 11, 2011 by Nexus One
SmileFace Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Yes SmileFace, really. I don't think men and women differ that much mentally when it comes to falling in love, I think the process is roughly similar. Except due to our testosterone I think men come across tougher than they feel internally. Oh, I didn't mean to come off as men differing from women, I never been in love so I the whole idea sounded really new . It sounds wonderful.
Author mo mo Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 You girls and women have no idea. When we fall in love we're wired to lose control internally. On the outside we try to play it cool, but on the inside we go bloody insane, to the point we get annoyed by ourselves. Not quite there yet champ.
Author mo mo Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 Oh, I didn't mean to come off as men differing from women, I never been in love so I the whole idea sounded really new . It sounds wonderful. I think it does differ from men to women though. I mean, we both have irrational feelings, but I think women have many more triggers for those feelings than men do, which is why love can be a bit more intense for women. If you haven't experienced it yet.. well, yea it CAN be wonderful but it's also kinda scary.
Nexus One Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Oh, I didn't mean to come off as men differing from women, I never been in love so I the whole idea sounded really new . It sounds wonderful. Don't worry, I didn't interpret your reply in that way, I just gave some extra info/opinion there. Also when I said "fall in love", it might as well be replaced by "have a crush on" or "get infatuated". That's the state I referred to. But do you mean you never had a crush on anyone? Never have been infatuated with anyone?
SmileFace Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Don't worry, I didn't interpret your reply in that way, I just gave some extra info/opinion there. Also when I said "fall in love", it might as well be replaced by "have a crush on" or "get infatuated". That's the state I referred to. But do you mean you never had a crush on anyone? Never have been infatuated with anyone? Yeah , that is what I thought you meant. I didn't really think you was referring to love . That is why I said "Really?"- it was more a joke than anything else. I have had crushes - but none that lasted long. I can't allow myself to like someone who doesn't like me - so that I usually don't last pass the time I know it is not mutual. I can't say I have ever been infatuated with anyone. The last guy I dated . I am pretty sure I am infatuated with him , only because it was one time I actually wanted a relationship to happen.
SmileFace Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 I think it does differ from men to women though. I mean, we both have irrational feelings, but I think women have many more triggers for those feelings than men do, which is why love can be a bit more intense for women. If you haven't experienced it yet.. well, yea it CAN be wonderful but it's also kinda scary. I wish I really can disagree with that , but I am pretty sure I haven't felt love or felt what it has be like to be loved. So ,I guess you are right. It does sound scary - I mean it sounds so vulnerable.
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