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Right I am feeling like crap today, the negative emotions just keep on coming and though I am winning I am having to put an obscene amount of effort in to keep my head back and a smile of my face.

 

So I have decided we should have a breakup club thread, a place to either flirt with other dumpees and make us feel good about ourselves or talk about our own personal attributes, something other than just the break up.

 

So I am going to start with a game. What is your best physical and personality attribute?

 

Physically I still have the perfect t i t s of a 21 year old, so I will say them and personality wise I would have to go for my people skills - I am blessed with the ability to get on with anyone!!!

 

Come on people....:)

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I have the face of a 16yr old yet im already 20yrs old, looking v young is something that happens to all asians apparantly. Always get that warm fuzzy feeling inside when ppl mistake your age for something younger :p

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Right I am feeling like crap today, the negative emotions just keep on coming and though I am winning I am having to put an obscene amount of effort in to keep my head back and a smile of my face.

 

So I have decided we should have a breakup club thread, a place to either flirt with other dumpees and make us feel good about ourselves or talk about our own personal attributes, something other than just the break up.

 

So I am going to start with a game. What is your best physical and personality attribute?

 

Physically I still have the perfect t i t s of a 21 year old, so I will say them and personality wise I would have to go for my people skills - I am blessed with the ability to get on with anyone!!!

 

Come on people....:)

Looks-wise, my eyes and like Tofu, I look really young for my age. I can pass off for a high school student still and I'm in my mid-20s. :cool:

 

Personality-wise, I'm a goofball. I'm fun to hang out with because I like and I make cheesy jokes but I can get away with it just because I'm one of those people that can. :laugh: Also, I'm comfortable with being by myself for the most part but I can put myself out there just fine, too. I just prefer being a homebody, that's all.

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I know what you mean Pen, I am highly sociable but my heart lies with being alone and home. I am a very split character and I don't overly believe in starsigns but when I read the Sagittarius-Capricorn cusp profile, the conflict is me down to a tea. My birthday is Dec 20th.

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I'm SO creative, I have great hair, I'm loyal and loving friend (although this might be a fault sometimes), and I once ran 15 miles (although these days I only do about 3 or 4).

 

Things I need to work on: loving and forgiving myself, and being independent. I love it that I don't need anybody. It's fabulous.

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Well attributes; apart from great sense of humour, intelligence, empathy, caring, creativity, loyalty, genuineness, compassion and being charitable I'm incredibly humble. Physically I'd have to say it's my ability as a lover however that isn't an attribute of my appearance; my broad shoulders and manly physique perhaps?

 

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Well, Im 19, I have very good physique, my best personality trait would have to be that im way too nice. WAY TOO NICE. haha.

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Oh, and my girlfriend and I are on a "break".

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Physically i recon myself as a good looking 25-year old. Guys often look at me and sometimes say things like "hey beautiful!" when i walk past. My ex BF told me i had a great body.

 

As a person i think i´m waay to nice. I always put other people first. Always want to help others. I´m loyal and i can be quite shy if i´m in a room with lots of other people. I´m very compassionate and care a lot for others. And also, i´m quite modest.

 

Hey i guess i´m not that bad after all :) Just wish my (ex) BF would´ve appreciated that... But i still need to work on my self-image, that´s my biggest challenge at the moment.

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lol, why not.

 

im 21, in my last semester of college, next stop law school or ocs in the military. im 6'2, 195 lbs, so i am in very good shape, or at least thats what im told, lol.

 

girls always tell me that i have a "babyface," and even though i think that sounds like it would be a bad thing, they all say otherwise.

 

i can make a joke out of pretty much everything, in fact, less than 2 months after my breakup, im starting to see the humor of it all. im a good friend who cant let a friend in need stay that way.

 

when im with a girl, i spoil them(i know this may be a bad thing, but i cant seem to help it). i firmly believe what you reap is what you sow, so i try to always reap good things, lol. I believe in complete loyalty while in a relationship, and can proudly say that i have never cheated on a single girl.

 

overall, im a pretty nice guy.

 

happy valentines everybody, keep your heads up and dont let them ruin your day

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I try to let my best features speak for themselves, but I guess that isn't an option here is it :)

 

I'm 5'9", 159lbs. I will be 28 in a about a month, but like others have said about themselves, most people think I'm 5-6 years younger than I am. I think my best physical feature is my smile and/or eyes. Plus so far I haven't started to lose my hair!

 

As for personal attributes: I've tried to put other peoples needs first, although after my last breakup I think I'm becoming more assertive with my own needs too.

 

You all sound like amaing people. We should be our own valentines this year.

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I am going to be 52 and easily pass for several years younger. I have great skin and hair. I am 5'4" and weigh 117 and MAY be able to sport a bikini if I keep my Crossfitting up this summer.

 

I cannot hold a grudge and am a giver. I love old people and kids. I havea very fun/crazy sense of humor. I am not afraid of hard work, I give everything I do my all.

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I like the idea of this thread, far too much negativity flying round this forum (although I suppose it is a break up forum so it's not going to be all fun and games!).

 

I am 30 years old but look a lot younger, I grew a beard because I got bored of being I'd to buy alcohol! :) I have been told my best feature is my legs though, through lots of running, cycling etc.

 

Personality wise I am nice, reliable and pretty funny. My strongest personaility trait though is that I am extremely patient and encouraging with others, as evidenced with my ex when I worked through her alcohol problems with her and spent a year teaching her to drive!

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I treated my partner (or ex-partners) like princesses and go out of my way to make them happy. Just a week before we split up I asked my now-ex where she wanted to go for a meal, she jokingly said france, so I bought a poster of the eiffel tower, some candles, some wine and some french music cd's (and a fake moustache) and cooked for her in the flat. Not THAT many partners would do that, as vomitingly cheesy as it all sounds.

 

It's not me that's the problem. I'm smart, shy but quite funny sometimes if I do say so myself (although not lately). I run marathons and keep myself in shape (I'm no arnie though, for sure).

 

I'm really not that bad. I think I need more confidence.

 

I'm going to go back to my pool of bitterness and self-pity now if you all don't mind :laugh:

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I am a loyal person! I'm 24 and occasionally get carded for going to watch R rated movies. I put others' needs before my own. I'll go that extra mile and I'll always have your back no matter what! I like wearing stripes and boots and going on adventures. I am a tomboy at heart and I like laughing.

 

I will make you picnics and travel all the way to your university to bring it to you :):bunny:

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Look how cool and fabulous we all are hey? On that note Depps is off to bed, it's midnight here in England. Happy VT day. xxx

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So, unsaddening myself, here goes. I'm 24 and somewhat tall for a girl, which I like, and like to call myself slender, though my legs are kinda muscly from running. Last fall I ran my best marathon time yet, 3h41, and am trying to break it this year. I'm perceptive and kind and a darned good essay writer, despite hating writing them more than anything else. I love to travel and to have really great, deep discussions about anything. I believe that good and bad are used too often to describe people as a whole rather than just behaviors. My dream is to make a living from my writing. And I know that I deserve better than the guy who dumped me. If only my heart believed the same....

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