CharlotteCraig Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 I am 53, going on 40. Told by people I do not look anywhere near 53, nor do I act it or dress it. But I am sensible. I own a successful business, work hard, solvent, no debts, no problems. Seeking a guy of 55+ who is same. As a friend or more. No f buddies though, if I was into casual I would be the highest paid call girl in the World. No married men either.
Author CharlotteCraig Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 Tried dating sites sweeetie. Most of the guys there are married and pretnding t obe single or just after sex or got no brain. Or just after casual and want to decide based on age and photos even though they are very old fat bald and ugly. I am not stupid thanks. I didnt ask for advice and dont need it.
Jazzari Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Tried dating sites sweeetie. Most of the guys there are married and pretnding t obe single or just after sex or got no brain. Or just after casual and want to decide based on age and photos even though they are very old fat bald and ugly. I am not stupid thanks. I didnt ask for advice and dont need it.Yeah, you do. Desperately. However, based on your nasty reply and high opinion of yourself I doubt you will listen...sweetie.
Author CharlotteCraig Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 OK. So a lady who sells advice and earns more in an hour than most do in a week needs advice. I have been on all the dating sites sweetie. Most are full of losers and users. There are lots of guys out there who would love to be with a woman who is much younger and richer than them. I suggest that you ask yourself what qualifies you to talk down to me. My post did not ask for advice. I do not expect to get a date off of this site and I am very fussy who I meet. So really it is none of your business. I suppose if I advertised that I was selling a car you would start rambling on and giving me advice even though you hvae no interest in being a customer. That makes you needing advice.
GorillaTheater Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 My post did not ask for advice. If you aren't looking for advice, and understand that this isn't a dating site, what are you hoping to get out of posting here?
Author CharlotteCraig Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 Another one who cant understand an easy to understand simple post and is not intersted but just interfering or being nosey> I see the first one has posted about 300 posts in a month so its about time that one got a life.
GorillaTheater Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Another one who cant understand an easy to understand simple post and is not intersted but just interfering blah blah Okay then. Good luck.
tinktronik Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 What are you hoping to get? you don't expect to find a date, you don't want advice. Do you just want to be supported in your type written wish for a 55+ male who could talk on the phone with you, one who is not too old, fat or hairless? There I support you in your desire to write down what you want in a man with no hope of finding it here, as this is not a dating forum or a singles site or even one to advertise cars... But it is a support and advice forum. So, that leaves us with support.
Jazzari Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 OK. So a lady who sells advice and earns more in an hour than most do in a week needs advice.Being successful in a career and making alot of money does not make you the love guru. I have been on all the dating sites sweetie. Most are full of losers and users. There are lots of guys out there who would love to be with a woman who is much younger and richer than them. Sure, there are losers. And there are alot of fantastic people there too. And many people find love on dating sites. It's been unsuccessul for you. Perhaps you need to ask yourself why? You seem to be very focused on wealth and youth. Perhaps you need to work on other qualities. I suggest that you ask yourself what qualifies you to talk down to me. My post did not ask for advice. I do not expect to get a date off of this site and I am very fussy who I meet. So really it is none of your business. If you don't expect to get a date from here, then why did you post you were looking for one? And its a public forum for discussion. By posting, you open yourself up to comments. You made it the business of everyone who reads it. I suppose if I advertised that I was selling a car you would start rambling on and giving me advice even though you hvae no interest in being a customer. That makes you needing advice. I think you've gone off the deep end here. WTF? Seriously, you need to lighten up.
Author CharlotteCraig Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 Don't give a toss what the guy looks like. MY LAST partner was old, fat and bald, and older than me. But he was also a Professor with a PHD, had had 8 books published and was very articulate and verbose. That is what I look for. Someone who is as hardworking, smart and educated as me. There are lots of men out there who are more educated than me and I would not expect them to want me, likewise I do not down date and make do with guys who can barely read and write or who are lazy. As for me not being a guru. Well so far I have had 12 books published about dating, romance, love, marriage, sex, and bring me in more than most earn. I have also been asked to appear television and radio about it but not interested. When were you last being asked to write a book or appear on television with your advice on these things? I will not tell you my professional name I use when I work and I will not be here again. Suffice it to say I came here to see what this forum was like and to see if there would be a lot of amateurs pretending to be professionals. My secretary told me there would be and she was right. A bright person would have seen that I was seeking a man and thought to themselves AM I INTERESTED? AM I A MAN WHO IS INTERESTED? WOULD SHE BE INTERESTED IN ME? And unless they thought they would be interested in actually fulfilling it and able to fulfill it they would not have posted. As to why I have not found a guy from the other details sites. It is simple. I will not date a guy who earns a lot less than me or who has debts or who is bad with money or who does not have a very good brain and a successful business. When I date a guy who is 10 years older than me I want an equal, not a guy who needs a mother to take care of him and baby him and who solves all of his problems and makes his decisions for him. He wouldbe boring as well as inadequate, just a burden and a gold digger. You remind me of the idiots who I saw on another forum about animals and pets. Someone had posted that she was seeking a puppy that was younger than 6 months and a girl. And all the posts were about dogs that were male or older or something else. Ridiculous. I WILL NOT BE HERE AGAIN. Maybe that will sink in.
TaraMaiden Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 I WILL NOT BE HERE AGAIN. Maybe that will sink in. Gosh, yes, it certainly has.... HURRRRRAAAAAAY!! Don't let the doorknob hit ya.....
GorillaTheater Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 I'm wondering why she was compelled to repeat how successful she was. At everything but understanding the point of this board and interacting with other people.
Jazzari Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Don't give a toss what the guy looks like... I meant you need to work on your OWN qualities. Instead of being so hung up on your own looks and social status you could work on your personality. Suffice it to say I came here to see what this forum was like and to see if there would be a lot of amateurs pretending to be professionals. I haven't seen ONE person here pretending to be a professional. The people here just want to help each other out. Nothing complicated or sinister about that. Sorry we stepped on your professional toes. A bright person would have seen that I was seeking a man and thought to themselves AM I INTERESTED? A bright person would have realized this isn't a dating site. And you already said you didn't expect a date from here. So which is it? For an author, your communication skills suck. As to why I have not found a guy from the other details sites. It is simple. I will not date a guy who earns a lot less than me or who has debts or who is bad with money or who does not have a very good brain and a successful business. When I date a guy who is 10 years older than me I want an equal, not a guy who needs a mother to take care of him and baby him and who solves all of his problems and makes his decisions for him. He wouldbe boring as well as inadequate, just a burden and a gold digger. Geez, lady. You have issues. I agree with your list of attributes, but you seem to be judging them prematurely and narrowly. And you've not said a word about things like love and loyalty. Are you looking for a mate or business partner? I WILL NOT BE HERE AGAIN. Maybe that will sink in. Don't let me run you off. I just don't understand why you are so extremely hostile. Perhaps that's the reason you are having problems finding a serious relationship? You may be good at helping others - hard to tell past all the hostility. But that doesn't mean you can see yourself and you own situation clearly. I think you have judged the well meaning people here too harshly and prematurely and lumped them all together. Hmmmm.... seems to be a pattern with you?
reservoirdog1 Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Wow, this is at least a few different kinds of weird...
bayouboi Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 haha pretty sure ya'll got trolled noone can be that dense
alexlakeman Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 OP, get a life, lol.. try the local bingo hall.. even if you looked 30, once a 40 some year old guy finds out you are 50+, he will run, run forest , run.. lol.. You sound very rude...
musemaj11 Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Lol, I thought the book "The Taming of the Shrew" that I read in high school was pure fiction.
TaraMaiden Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 http://i.imgur.com/t59cH.jpg I can't imagine she's even THAT pretty.... I'm wondering why she was compelled to repeat how successful she was. At everything but understanding the point of this board and interacting with other people. Being a good writer (which she most certainly isn't) doesn't make you a good communicator. Albert Camus wrote two classic novels (one would be enough by anyone' standards!) but he really didn't 'like' people a lot, and wasn't a good orator. Bit snippy, our Albert. This one leaves him leagues behind though. Anyways, anybody can say anything they like on a forum. It doesn't make it true. I'm 5'9", blonde, busty and extremely talented. See? I can see why she is single. And friendless. And desperate. And will probably continue to be.
Recommended Posts