Author Lovelybird Posted February 12, 2011 Author Posted February 12, 2011 A devout Christian man who likes to regularly receive warm oiled body massages naked by women. Rightto. He is like two men in one body. One is decent and respectful, another one I don't know well, who likes massages, and facebook many young asian girls from all over the places. I feel like a human is a deep mystery, and fear what I am going to dig out
Ross PK Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 You will get a happy ending when being massaged? Ok, another question. if you are massaged by a female, do you want a prettier one do the job? or any woman would be fine. Personally I wouldn't mind about whether she looks pretty or not. Just as long as she's feminine with nice hands.
taiko Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 You will get a happy ending when being massaged? Ok, another question. if you are massaged by a female, do you want a prettier one do the job? or any woman would be fine. Its not that you will get a happy ending but with a female their is the chance she won't make the rent so her professionalism might go on break. Yes homophobia is part of it. With men it is a profession that now we believe gay men gravitate towards and should he decide to use his probably bigger and stronger body to get his freak on there is little you can do to stop him without spending time in jail until the DA decides what he is going to do.
TaurusTerp Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Maybe I need to forget this man who likes being massaged by females ALL TOGETHER. smells like a player A man that likes to be touched by women? Sounds like he should be in the 7th circle of hell, at the very least.
Author Lovelybird Posted February 13, 2011 Author Posted February 13, 2011 Its not that you will get a happy ending but with a female their is the chance she won't make the rent so her professionalism might go on break. Yes homophobia is part of it. With men it is a profession that now we believe gay men gravitate towards and should he decide to use his probably bigger and stronger body to get his freak on there is little you can do to stop him without spending time in jail until the DA decides what he is going to do. A man that likes to be touched by women? Sounds like he should be in the 7th circle of hell, at the very least. Considering King David and Solonmon loved God so much, still they had so many women, it is possible for a man who loves God, and same time loves many women? Right? I guess? and I realized maybe I don't need a "King David" or "Solonmon"... Maybe ALL men are like this in their hearts? except of Jesus Christ
daphne Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 LB- As a female, I actually like getting massages myself. Preferably from women, because I'm thin and a woman can beat me up sufficiently. I have to work out kinks from sports injuries on a semi regular basis and I also go almost nude. That's normal. But I'll be honest, outside of injuries and occasional relaxation for a stressful job, I doubt I would go get a massage just for fun. I also don't have a fb full of young hot Asian girl friends from around the world.
Star Gazer Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 This may vary from area to area, BUT... Massage salons and parlors are typically the types that give happy endings - at least in my area. Men who frequent these establishments usually get such "massages" from women, and typically Asian women. These same men also tend to take extended trips to Thailand. Massage clinics and spas, on the other hand, are professional and reputable where only massages occur by trained massage therapists.
snug.bunny Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 I also don't have a fb full of young hot Asian girl friends from around the world. Bingo!! Sounds sketchy.........
Star Gazer Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 I don't think I'd be comfortable getting a massage from a guy. I find that so interesting. Most straight men I know feel the same way - they want a female massage therapist. They all say it's not sexual either. Well, if it's not sexual, why do you need a female over a male? Most women I know want a female massage therapist as well, myself included. I guess I don't particularly like the idea of a random dude seeing me naked (other than a tiny sheet covering my arse when face down or torso when face up) and rubbin' me. But yet guys want a random girl rubbin' them. This leaves male massage therapists out of the game. I once dated a male massage therapist, and he really struggled to book appointments outside of his regulars.
january2011 Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 I'm a woman and I have received 'professional' massages from men and women. Must admit that I prefer the latter - there always seemed to be a sexual undertone with the former. And in one incident, in a supposedly reputable hotel, after the session, a male massage therapist showed me his list of 'additional services' - I couldn't wait to get out of there and away from him. I'm surprised that more guys aren't saying that they prefer massages from other guys. My male friends have told me that they prefer sports massages from male massage therapists because they are much more effective at working the muscles and getting the tension out.
jean-luc sisko Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 This question is for men. If you like to go to massage salon from time to time, can you tell what is the reasons behind it? you feel good to be touched by a female? is there any sexual undertone? Honesty, please i wouldn't like to be touched by a man. It would feel uncomfortable.
collegeguy_24 Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 Where I live, we have very few male massage therapists, most seem to be hired on contract in the gated communities of the very rich. We do have an asian spa here, and rumor has it it supplies the happy ending, but I don't go there. For one, I am in a newly committed relationship, and to me getting the happy ending constitutes cheating. We do have some professional female massage therapists though, and I go to them to help deal with my lower back pain. Plus, and this is just from my experience with my female friends, I prefer women over male for a simple reason. The bigger a womans boobs, the more pain her lower back suffers from, and as a man with lower back pain, I would prefer someone who knows what it is and has a gentle touch to deal with it.
Lorelai Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 Its not that you will get a happy ending but with a female their is the chance she won't make the rent so her professionalism might go on break. Yes homophobia is part of it. With men it is a profession that now we believe gay men gravitate towards and should he decide to use his probably bigger and stronger body to get his freak on there is little you can do to stop him without spending time in jail until the DA decides what he is going to do. Is it homophobia or misandry? Because honestly, a lot of the reason I, as a female, would prefer a massage from a woman is because of pretty much the same fear -- not that I'd actually expect it to happen or think a male massage therapist is any more likely than the general population to engage in sexual assault, but that I've been assaulted before and would have issues with a strange guy touching me that would make the massage less effective. I've known a few male MTs that I trusted enough. And even if a person isn't fully nude, being in underwear and a sheet is still pretty damn naked... I wouldn't say that MT is a career that attracts gays, btw... it definitely attracts more women than men because of that power differential issue IMHO -- a female MT is likely to be acceptable by either gender. But strong hands *are* a requirement for MTs. Since I'm not heavily muscled it doesn't take a lot of hand strength to work on me, but I can imagine that some sports massage/physical therapy might be more effective from a man. During my one experience with PT, though, the closest thing to massage was them putting a TENS unit on the affected joint with ice packs after I'd pushed myself hard enough that I was going to have quite a bit of swelling/pain after therapy without it.
Author Lovelybird Posted February 13, 2011 Author Posted February 13, 2011 (edited) I also don't have a fb full of young hot Asian girl friends from around the world. You think this is inappropriate also? This may vary from area to area, BUT... Massage salons and parlors are typically the types that give happy endings - at least in my area. Men who frequent these establishments usually get such "massages" from women, and typically Asian women. These same men also tend to take extended trips to Thailand. Massage clinics and spas, on the other hand, are professional and reputable where only massages occur by trained massage therapists. Really? He is very respectful with me. and he told me that when he was in my country's hotel, asked for a massage, then the woman wanted to offer some extra service, and he refused it. If he hadn't told me such, I had no idea people do that! Even without happy ending, I am questioning the motive why a man wants to be massaged by a female. Maybe as previous posts said, they want feminine touch due to a long time they haven't got one. and he is charming type, when he walks on street, many western women seemed attracted to him. It is not that he couldn't find a western woman, some of women even bluntly flirt with him I'm a woman and I have received 'professional' massages from men and women. Must admit that I prefer the latter - there always seemed to be a sexual undertone with the former. And in one incident, in a supposedly reputable hotel, after the session, a male massage therapist showed me his list of 'additional services' - I couldn't wait to get out of there and away from him. I'm surprised that more guys aren't saying that they prefer massages from other guys. My male friends have told me that they prefer sports massages from male massage therapists because they are much more effective at working the muscles and getting the tension out. Yes, I would feel so too Where I live, we have very few male massage therapists, most seem to be hired on contract in the gated communities of the very rich. We do have an asian spa here, and rumor has it it supplies the happy ending, but I don't go there. For one, I am in a newly committed relationship, and to me getting the happy ending constitutes cheating. We do have some professional female massage therapists though, and I go to them to help deal with my lower back pain. Plus, and this is just from my experience with my female friends, I prefer women over male for a simple reason. The bigger a womans boobs, the more pain her lower back suffers from, and as a man with lower back pain, I would prefer someone who knows what it is and has a gentle touch to deal with it. It is difficult to tell if a guy is aiming for pain relief or for a happy ending... Edited February 13, 2011 by Lovelybird
daphne Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 You think this is inappropriate also? Is he Asian? I guess without knowing the specifics, it's hard to make a judgement call on that. It just sounds sketchy to me unless he's also young and Asian.
johan Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 Not every guy is like that. Speaking for myself, I honestly have no desire for a massage, from a woman or anyone else. Not even from the person I'm dating. I guess I was born without that gene. And as far as paying to get attention from a woman, I have never seen the point. I like their attention if it's free. I like it better if it's from someone I'm interested in.
Author Lovelybird Posted February 13, 2011 Author Posted February 13, 2011 Is he Asian? I guess without knowing the specifics, it's hard to make a judgement call on that. It just sounds sketchy to me unless he's also young and Asian. He is white, not asian, and 13 years older than me. I think I am already not the age for facebook, I don't like facebook Not every guy is like that. Speaking for myself, I honestly have no desire for a massage, from a woman or anyone else. Not even from the person I'm dating. I guess I was born without that gene. And as far as paying to get attention from a woman, I have never seen the point. I like their attention if it's free. I like it better if it's from someone I'm interested in.
TaurusTerp Posted February 13, 2011 Posted February 13, 2011 He is white, not asian, and 13 years older than me. I think I am already not the age for facebook, I don't like facebook Sounds like a creepy old white guy with yellow fever. Are you asian?
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