harpersays Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 I'm nineteen and I've been in a relationship with my fiance for two years. We started out as best friends, then moved in together as friends with benefits. We got together about a month after that. I love him more than he knows. Everything is good. The only problem is that... I just don't want sex anymore. When we first started, I always wanted it and was fulfilled. Every day. Every single time. But for the last few months, I just don't even think about it. When we do have sex, it's incredible for him. Nothing for me. I did have two miscarriages last year which had to be removed, so I'm thinking maybe I'm just not as sensitive down there anymore. We aren't trying to have kids at all. I just want my sex life back. Help?
Eddie Edirol Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Do you look at him and have any desire at all? Are you on any medications?
CharlotteCraig Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 You need to ask a qualified therapist/doctor this question, only he can know the answer. It couldbe that you were very excited by your guy at the start and familiarity breeded contempt, I can remember guys where I fancied them a lot but not 2 years later, that is life. That is why they speak of the 7 year itch and people split up. But it might be medical. If you fancy someone else but not him then you will know it is not medical.
Lauriebell82 Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 It could be an unconcious feeling due to the grief from miscarriages. I suggest seeking out a counselor/therapist or even your OBGyn? It could really be a number of things from a change in hormones, depression, resolved issues from miscarrying, aging, change in sex drive, ect.
Author harpersays Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 (edited) I don't think it has anything to do with him. It's probably just me. The miscarriages weren't devastating, honestly. Mostly I was just surprised. We definitely do not need kids now anyway. I thought the miscarriages might have something to do with it because of the procedure when removing the fetus. I am stressed out a lot at this point in my life, and I blame that somewhat. The only medicine I am on is Adderall for my ADHD. I really just want to know how I can feel like I want to have sex, and when I do, be able to go all the way. Edited February 11, 2011 by harpersays
CharlotteCraig Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Someone said it may be all sorts of things, which is true, but you can forget it being due to aging. You are young and two years is nothing.
pinko Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 yes i think your are losing your interest.and the reasons you tell these are the reasons of losing your interest i think.
jimfaster Posted February 17, 2011 Posted February 17, 2011 Who will lose interest must be due to a depression over watch sex IUI. if u go to masturbation sometimes u can get it, it will reset the system clock for a hormonal sex hormones estrogen and libido teststerone s needs, it is good to get a natural
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