bentnotbroken Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Just leave your Husband and be with this other man instead of blaming your H for your actions. He can't hold you hostage. From reading some of your own posts it seems that you actually get off on the drama and playing with fire. If I were him we would have been divorced already. Ditto again.
thomasb Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Hazy Head yes I do enjoy him!! But his annoying me like hell he puts his friends before me even when we have something planned his bff calls dude meet me there then his like sorry babe I got to run not fair!! And like I said I suggested divorce he refuses to hear about it!! I don't know what the F to do!! Hahaha East I'll be in Portugal & Amsterdam next month on vacation come and visit me!! You sound like you needa good dose of maturity.
Author Gotti25 Posted February 12, 2011 Author Posted February 12, 2011 I appreciate your guys comments!! I am in a messed up situation and I don't know what to do as of yet!! What pisses me off the most I haven't received any response back from this OM yet regarding my text to get my things and why would I leave it behind and no is not an excuse to see him again!! and maybe is just a booty call for him!! But I don't understand what the hell is he doing when he can have someone else that is single!! Obviously he doesnt care that I am a MW!! I will figure it out soon enough!!
Woggle Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 I know this is not what you want to hear but most likely he thinks of you as easy sex. I know that is harsh but 95% of the time that is the only men will get involved with a married woman. They don't look for relationships with attached women.
Author Gotti25 Posted February 12, 2011 Author Posted February 12, 2011 Well he must be so miserable himself to be involved with MW!! Since his good looking smart and single!! I will have to have conversation with him sobber!! I don't know what to think of it!! And yeah I can get many other guys I don't need him to fulfill my needs!! I shouldn't have said that I am M!! But had some serious feelings for the OM even with NC it wouldn't go away!! And it makes me mad like hell to the point where is showing tha!!
twinsmom Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 I posted here a while ago!! Broke contact with OM 6 months ago only hooked up twice!! Didn't keep contact at all!! OM called a few times in between those 6 months H picked up and threatening him so he stopped!! Until I texted the OM couple nights ago wasted out of my mind around 2 a m wanting to meet up!! I went over to his place and had sex came home around 6am!! Yep, she should listen to you..
Woman In Blue Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 So I suggested divorce he won't hear about it he said if I make mistakes he will forget but he won't let go... You don't need your husband's permission to leave him - OR divorce him. That's a ridiculous excuse, that your husband "won't hear of it." ..and I hate it cause I spend a lot of time home alone his always with the guys pisses me off I talked to him about it he won't do ****tt!! He said to me your fine just gooo get your nails done or whatever you'll get over it!! How's that supposed to get things better no wonder I'm having an affair hmmm?? If you're talking about being home alone all day, why don't you consider getting a job? It's not up to your husband to entertain you because you have way too much time on your hands. Get out and be productive.
Woman In Blue Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 ....and maybe is just a booty call for him!! But I don't understand what the hell is he doing when he can have someone else that is single!! Obviously he doesnt care that I am a MW!! I will figure it out soon enough!! This is NOT rocket science. Most guys will gladly take a drunk woman who shows up at their door offering up sex at 3:00 am. Doesn't mean he WANTS anything with you. You're still young and confusing sex with love - they're entirely TWO different things. Just because he'll have sex with you doesn't mean he wants 'more' from you. There's nothing you need to "figure out." You showed up at his door offering him sex at 3 in the morning and he took it. It was thrown at him and he took it - this isn't the riddle of the Sphinx. It's not some deep, mysterious puzzle that you need to figure out. When it was being offered up to him, at that moment he didn't care if you were married or an alien and he just went with it. Period. There's nothing more to figure out.
East7 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 You don't need your husband's permission to leave him - OR divorce him. That's a ridiculous excuse, that your husband "won't hear of it." If you're talking about being home alone all day, why don't you consider getting a job? It's not up to your husband to entertain you because you have way too much time on your hands. Get out and be productive. What you folks don't get here is that Gotti wants them both, OM and H. She wants her H for comfort and her OM to get laid once in a while for a "change". She is perfectly happy with the situation, she is just trolling (provoking) here. She is enjoying the fight and competition between 2 guys for her ! Can't believe what she says...just makes me LMAO : "I showed up at OM at 3:00Am ...how did he dare to f*ck with a married woman??? Such a crazy guy, he has no moral" :lmao::lmao:
woinlove Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 What you folks don't get here is that Gotti wants them both, OM and H. She wants her H for comfort and her OM to get laid once in a while for a "change". She is perfectly happy with the situation, she is just trolling (provoking) here. She is enjoying the fight and competition between 2 guys for her ! Can't believe what she says...just makes me LMAO : "I showed up at OM at 3:00Am ...how did he dare to f*ck with a married woman??? Such a crazy guy, he has no moral" :lmao::lmao: You've nailed this one! Some people don't want or expect much out of life, and playing others, whether in life or on LS, is entertainment enough for them. Until they actually want more, there's not much others can do to help.
East7 Posted February 20, 2011 Posted February 20, 2011 You've nailed this one! Some people don't want or expect much out of life, and playing others, whether in life or on LS, is entertainment enough for them. Until they actually want more, there's not much others can do to help. Yes, and I feel sorry for the posters that are wasting their time here writing thoughtful advices.
Author Gotti25 Posted February 22, 2011 Author Posted February 22, 2011 Waisting time yeah right!! Too many depressing posts on here.
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