jj33 Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 Good point WWIU. And isnt that really disloyal to your W especially if you are attracted to this woman? To say that intelligent life is missing from your marriage is a huge slap in the face.
Spacecase78 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 If you were strictly friends then it could succeed, but it sounds like you are taking it a step or three farther than that by going intimate with this person. However, you are forgetting something - this other person. For one, this relationship is going beyond that of normal friendship and you're going to cause yourself to become even more discontent in your marriage if it continues and as time passes. Secondly, are you really sure that this woman that you're "friends" with is going to be forever content with this, or will she inevitably want more? We women are emotional creatures and most of us aren't going to be content with filling in the void for some guy who isn't going to be in our lives permanently, especially if we care about them. Whether or not she admits to it or not, she's not going to be content with this borderline, long-distance/email relationship forever. She's either going to make it friends only, which could even burden the friendship, or she's expect you to eventually "see the light" and divorce.
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