creighton0123 Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 It doesn't happen often that boyfriend and I break daily contact. We have a rule that for every hour after 24 hours we don't hear from one another, we owe 5 minutes per hour of unrestricted nekked time. This is a question for those who like to self-focus in times where regular contact is interrupted. If you get a proverbial "night away", what do you like to do? My example in the response post :-)
Author creighton0123 Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 I like to go full out home-spa treatment. I did so tonight: First I like to watch some short comedy shows (currently on Parks & Recreation, Glee, and Community) Then I begin the spa treatment: 0. Wheatgrass ingestion 1. Sage cleansing of self and apartment (negative energy cleansing) 2. Burning of rose incense (incites emotional well being and returns calm energy to the home) 3. Rose petal + Valerian root tea (detox) 4. Jasmine/lavender bath 5. Shaving + facial, hand, and foot exfoliation 6. Aloe self-massage All this is done while playing the most relaxing music I can find. Now I'm relaxed, clean, smooth, and sleepy :-)
wild_urge Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Haha, I wish, I just get depressed, feel like crying and extreamly lonely, can't foucus, so I end up eating a lot of chocolate and watching movies/ tv shows ( Dharma and Greg right now, it's so much fun ). Good strategy and the 5 min naked time for every hour, OMG, that sounds like a lot of fun, unfortunetly my parents are always around when I am home and we barely ever get any time to be naked
Author creighton0123 Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 Haha, I wish, I just get depressed, feel like crying and extreamly lonely, can't foucus, so I end up eating a lot of chocolate and watching movies/ tv shows ( Dharma and Greg right now, it's so much fun ). Good strategy and the 5 min naked time for every hour, OMG, that sounds like a lot of fun, unfortunetly my parents are always around when I am home and we barely ever get any time to be naked Heh. Now I'm settling down with some fresh ginger + honey tea (raw ginger prepped with mortar & pestle strained through cheese cloth after brewing for 10 minutes. The rule with boyfriend can be cashed in at any time. I owe him somewhere around 35 minutes and he owes me 75 minutes. We'll most likely cash in when I visit him in May :-D Stuff like that makes time not talking fun instead of sad. I know that while we're not talking, there is some great rewards because of it :-)
aerogurl87 Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 A "night away" for me consists of watching marathons of either 16 and Pregnant, Teen Mom 2, or Milliionaire Matchmaker online on my laptop and being cuddled up with a few blankets and pillows in my warm bed. While munching on some Godiva chocolate and drinking half a gallon of apple juice.
Author creighton0123 Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 A "night away" for me consists of watching marathons of either 16 and Pregnant, Teen Mom 2, or Milliionaire Matchmaker online on my laptop and being cuddled up with a few blankets and pillows in my warm bed. While munching on some Godiva chocolate and drinking half a gallon of apple juice. I'm starting to see a universal chocolate theme among the ladies :-D
sb129 Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 I'm a lady and I am having a night away tomorrow night sans chocolate. When you have children, away means REALLY away- from them! Tomorrow night some girlfriends and I have rented an apartment at the beach (only 15mins drive from my house) and we are going out for dinner, then staying at the apartment. The apartment has a pool and a jacuzzi, and there will be lots of champagne consumed.... YAY!
folieadeux Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 In my down time I like getting my hair/nails done. Cleaning house is a must and I like to get in some guitar practice too. I try to avoid downing huge quantities of food/sweets so as to avoid having a food baby by the next time he sees me.
hoping2heal Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 It doesn't happen often that boyfriend and I break daily contact. We have a rule that for every hour after 24 hours we don't hear from one another, we owe 5 minutes per hour of unrestricted nekked time. This is a question for those who like to self-focus in times where regular contact is interrupted. If you get a proverbial "night away", what do you like to do? My example in the response post :-) I love pampering! I may do a mani or pedi, go get hair or brows done. Get out of the house and do something fun. Just depends. I miss him like mad when he is not around of course but at the same time, I am just one of those personality types that appreciates some solitude every so often. If he wont be around I make the best of it and have a good time doing all else. I will not sit around and sulk and ruin a perfectly good evening, he would not want that for me or me him.
Faded_x Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 My boyfriend and I don't really have a set scheduled time to talk, so we mostly just live our lives as usual, and talk in between when we can. We don't have set times/days; so I never feel that I've missed out on conversation with him if he doesn't turn up online or whatever at a certain time. Other than going out with friends, usually when I'm missing him and wishing we could talk I like to take my mind off things and watch TV shows. Particularly something funny, that will have me laughing and happy. I'm also on the chocolate bandwagon. Well, any junk food really haha.
TokyoG33kyGal Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 well sundays (his saturdays) are our usual date/chat/game night but yesterday he had to go to his mom's wedding so i was freeeeeeeeee wee lol. geeked out with my friends though, we were planning to work on some amateur video game of our own. i usually have my own time at night and do all my stuffs as usual cuz i'm often at work (multitasking -- working and chatting with him and LS on the side lol) when we chat. feel bad for him cuz sometimes i feel like i steal his game time but i let him do his own thing when he seems distracted.
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