Free spirit86 Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 ok,I know some of you are going to say, why did you do that? But well I sent my ex-who broke up with me, an email saying that I was going insane with the no contact situation, and that I accepted that we were never getting back together. I was just trying to express that I miss talking to him. I REALLY have accepted that we need to move on but I just cannot accept not talking to him. He didn't respond to my email but we have chatted since the break up. We talked last Saturday and he texted me Monday, and I texted him back on Tuesday. I just feel so crazy not being able to talk to him...yes I am trying to keep busy but I feel like I am can actually talk to him without wondering if we were going to get back together. I really feel like I am accepting and even understanding...What do I do? What may he be thinking?
0hpenelope Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 No one's going to yell at you, free. All of us have done what you've done at some point or another with an ex. If you feel that you can be happy with this situation, then best of luck to you. It's never too late to go NC because the point of cutting off contact is so you can focus on getting better and not to get an ex back. The ex coming back is more of an unintentional side-effect anyway. Who knows why some dumpers change their minds. Good luck to you again.
gator12 Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 Yep, agree with pene on every point. If you feel you can handle it then go for it, but if for one second it starts to hurt you go right on back to NC. Now I'd be careful if you want to get back together with him, staying in contact will only hurt you if that's the case. Best of luck -Gator
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