moonlight123 Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 Hello, I recently met somebody who I love to be around. I always find myself looking for him at work and I am always so happy around him. The only thing is that I'm not physically attracted to him. Something draws me towards him and when I see him chatting with other ladies and flirting I get jealous. He is showing a lot of interest in me, more so than other women and I am sure he is into me. I don't feel that initial physical attraction towards him that I felt with all my exes. I Just have this strong urge to be around him and I get nervous around him. What's going on!?
EnigmaRole Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 Hi It sounds very much like my situation with my now boyfriend!! I always liked him, loved his personality but he never did it for my physically. I knew he liked me in a non platonic way. Anyway, we ended up kissing at a very strange time for us and I could not believe the amount of chemistry between us, I tried to deny it as I'd spent so long telling people we'd never be anything but just friends. He wasn't the 'type' I would usually go for, but seeing as my usual type were all now Ex's it would seem neither were they!!! Long story short, we decided to 'give us' a try and it is the single most wonderful thing I have ever done. He is my MR RIGHT, never saw it before but am glad I did finally... Give it a go, maybe?
ginger337 Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 While physical attraction does play a major role in relationships, it's not the most important thing. You seem to be attracted to him in every other aspect. Listen to your gut, which by that "strong urge" sensation seems to be saying go for it. Why not?
Cee Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 My guy didn't give me butterflies when we met and I accepted a date thinking it was going to be nothing. And, I'm so glad I did. It's indescribable the chemistry we have because it's on so many levels- emotional, intellectual, and also physical. I get butterflies now thinking about him. The main risk I see is that you are coworkers. It's best to tread carefully.
xpaperxcutx Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 So he's either overweight or too skinny for your taste. Sometimes the physical can only go so far. My ex wasn't physically attractive, but he did won me over with his personality. If I have a choice, a guy does not have to be 100% model looking, but he does have to be 90% likeable personality wise.
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