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Ok, just finished this relationship, NOW WHAT?


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I don't get why you're so harsh on this guy. Everyone has their own preference as to what they want in a life partner and I'm sure you have too. Do you rather that he string her along? In ref to sedgwick's post above

 

Thanks for your supporting words leftfordead2

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I'm not insulting you at all! But I mean...you want a girl who "behaves like a nun?" Seriously? I had quite a bit more sexual experience than the last guy I was with, who didn't care one bit because it all happened BEFORE I MET HIM, and he was secure enough in himself and had enough of a sense of adventure that our sex was OUR sex! The lives we lived before we knew of one another's existence were of no consequence whatsoever, and shouldn't be. To limit ourselves because of numbers would have meant missing out on something beautiful for a very silly reason.

 

Can't you see how incredibly insulting YOUR behavior was to HER?!

 

"ridiculous" "short sighted" "pointless" seem disrispectful to me. As leftfordead2 said, everyone has its own preferences. In my case its not just about numbers but about sharing certain values towards sex that i would like to feel my partner shares with me (which is not wrong or right, each person has its own values). I understand your position and i already processed it. I would thank you if you dont post anymore with that aggressive attitude.

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People this is the thing... i started talking with her again. And i still feel incredible anxious and miserable all the time... Should i keep posting on this thread or go back to the original one?

 

thanks for the advice :)

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