DP63 Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 My W is refusing to attend counselling either individually or as a couple. I guess she feels embarrassed and her Persian pride will not allow her to open up. If she continues to refuse I don't see much of a future together. Any advise from you guys and gals?
Darren Steez Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 Her actions must be seen to have serious consequences, she probably feels she can get away with it and things will go back to the way they were..or she's just not that bothered about your marriage. if she wants to fix this then she does it by your terms or initiate divorce proceedings to show her how serious you are. Don't be a doormat!
TakeMeasIam Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 "You guess she feels".... Have you actually tried communicating with her and asking her why she is reluctant? Instead of laying down ultimatums, perhaps a compromising approach would be best. Why not ask her how she sees this moving forward, if you don't get counselling?
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