guitarguy09 Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 Weve been together for two years.she broke up with me about a month ago because of G.I.G.S (at least thats what i think) then less than a month later shes seeing this guy already. Hes a friend of her friends and he just arrived in my town like 2 months ago.when she broke up with me i told her to tell me if it was him but shed always say no, its just a coincidence that hes here now. She tried breaking up with me before because of GIGS but didnt push through with it as she was scared of losing me completely. Oh and she almost cheated on me with some other guy but she told me directly. I guess shes just confused?at least thats what she said. I've done the usual begging/pleading for the first few weeks then went no contact. sometimes she would contact me. but i know she is still seeing this guy. She blocked me on facebook a month ago, and told me i needed to move on and stop stalking her(early stages of the breakup) but then just a week ago she readded me and sent a message ":)" so i confirmed sent back a smile and she said "hey you!!:)" what is she trying to do?
JasonRules Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 Things aren't turning out the way she thought they would be with the other guy and since she knows she has you by the balls, she's trying to keep you within arm's distance as a "spare tire" in case guy no. 1 bails on her.
eeazee Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 She's feeding you bread crumbs.Dont fall for it. Please back off. Stick to full NC and ignore her. If she wants you, she's gonna come begging.
skydiveaddict Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 t what is she trying to do? relieve her guilt
smudge21 Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 Playing games mate, sadly. She tosses you aside, then why you go NC, she gets in touch as she wants to make sure you're still there when she clicks her fingers. And you are, so she just tosses you aside again. It's a bitter twisted circle that you need to break. Go NC and stay NC, even when she tries to get in touch. If you do want to reply, do so as a friend rather than someone who loves her still. You need to be strong and show her that you 'aint gonna' be played like this, otherwise it will last forever. Plus the more you are there for her, the less she'll respect you. You'll just be her personal man-friend. More of a servant than a lover.
Author guitarguy09 Posted February 10, 2011 Author Posted February 10, 2011 i asked her why she unblocked and added me. its been two days and she didnt reply
Author guitarguy09 Posted February 10, 2011 Author Posted February 10, 2011 heres a song i wrote about her. its my bands latest single, itll get airplay after the final edit. lots of people were responsive but she hasnt said a word about it and some of her friends liked it haha
Author guitarguy09 Posted February 10, 2011 Author Posted February 10, 2011 heres a song i wrote about her. its my bands latest single, itll get airplay after the final edit. lots of people were responsive but she hasnt said a word about it and some of her friends liked it haha if you were the dumper, how would you feel?
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