30Years Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Girls you don't have to feel bad because you spread your legs to guys with charming skills. Is this sentence an example of charming skills? I've been looking for some new pick up lines.
AverageJoe Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 This is always a repetitive mantra from some of the members of LS that I always see - "She must be skank" "She must be a slut" "She is of low quality" to be attracted to that type of thing. Always in the first page of a thread like this you will hear some variation or another of that. I am here to tell you this is a complete apologue. Sure, it can happen but to immediately dismiss this fact is naive or potentially arrogant. Some of you need to knock off this incessant theory that women whom are attracted to bad boys are damaged, low quality, etc. If you are not one of these people then you have no social experience to even have a fractal of background strife to make such claims. You girls tell yourself whatever you like if it makes you feel better. I on the other hand go out with some pretty high quality women. Not many of them fit your delusional theory.
Woggle Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Sure some might look good but people who are constantly attracted to drama are usually nothing but drama themselves. You have to look beyond having a nice piece of arm candy by your side.
AverageJoe Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Sure some might look good but people who are constantly attracted to drama are usually nothing but drama themselves. You have to look beyond having a nice piece of arm candy by your side. If you are referring to me. No, I don't have to look beyond that. According to who and on what grounds?
Woggle Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 If you are referring to me. No, I don't have to look beyond that. According to who and on what grounds? You don't have to but if you want a quality woman you do. If you are happy simply with arm candy then knock yourself out.
AverageJoe Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 You don't have to but if you want a quality woman you do. If you are happy simply with arm candy then knock yourself out. According to you, Woggle. Perception is not always reality. I go out with quality arm candy women as you put it. Help me to define where the hell I am going wrong.
Woggle Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 According to you, Woggle. Perception is not always reality. I go out with quality arm candy women as you put it. Help me to define where the hell I am going wrong. Because women attracted to bad boys or taken men like the drama and as soon as you stop providing that drama they are out of there.
AverageJoe Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Because women attracted to bad boys or taken men like the drama and as soon as you stop providing that drama they are out of there. ALL women like drama!! In some shape, form or fashion, they all like drama to a certain extent. If the drama gets to much for me I dial the next number on the pecking list.
Pyro Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 This is always a repetitive mantra from some of the members of LS that I always see - "She must be skank" "She must be a slut" "She is of low quality" to be attracted to that type of thing. Always in the first page of a thread like this you will hear some variation or another of that. I am here to tell you this is a complete apologue. Sure, it can happen but to immediately dismiss this fact is naive or potentially arrogant. Some of you need to knock off this incessant theory that women whom are attracted to bad boys are damaged, low quality, etc. If you are not one of these people then you have no social experience to even have a fractal of background strife to make such claims. You girls tell yourself whatever you like if it makes you feel better. I on the other hand go out with some pretty high quality women. Not many of them fit your delusional theory. what is your definition of a bad boy? For those (including me) who mention that she must be damaged, low quality, etc. define bad boys as those who treat the women like garbage, lie to them, abuse them in some way, and/or show them no respect whatsoever. Sorry but ANY woman who puts up with any behavior like what I listed has some loose screws.
Anela Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 (edited) ALL women like drama!! In some shape, form or fashion, they all like drama to a certain extent. No, we don't. Caught in a drama cycle (not by choice, because I would not choose it) = unhealthier me. I have something stressful going on right now, because I was in a bad way emotionally when it started (partially due to the guy I mentioned). I'm not going to go into more, but because I wasn't feeling so healthy, my guard/defenses were thrown up - overly so, and because of the surrounding drama, I made the situation worse in the end, precisely because I was feeling so very defensive. I was attracted to the guy I mentioned, *before* he went downhill. He's back now, being sweet and saying that he could undo something if he could, but he can't, and this time last year, he didn't want to - I know, because he said he wasn't sorry, and he didn't feel guilty. You get a woman into the cycle I mentioned, and then just move on once it gets to be too much drama for you? I'm going to have to exit this thread, before I say something that will get me banned. (And who said anything about spreading my legs for a bad boy? That's precisely what I'm *not* doing.) Edited February 11, 2011 by Anela
Author singlelife Posted February 11, 2011 Author Posted February 11, 2011 Funny how there are lots of hot women who go for this who are of GREAT quality. Saying women are no good if they go for this is not even close to being a fact.
Woggle Posted February 11, 2011 Posted February 11, 2011 Funny how there are lots of hot women who go for this who are of GREAT quality. Saying women are no good if they go for this is not even close to being a fact. If being hot is the only criteria you have for quality then yes but they are still drama addicts.
AverageJoe Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 what is your definition of a bad boy? For those (including me) who mention that she must be damaged, low quality, etc. define bad boys as those who treat the women like garbage, lie to them, abuse them in some way, and/or show them no respect whatsoever. Sorry but ANY woman who puts up with any behavior like what I listed has some loose screws. You, like many people have a skewed perception of a bad boy. One who may abuse women, physically, or mentally. Let me lay this to rest. These are not bad boys (yet they are). What I mean by that is there are these low quality, skank, women that WILL go for being smacked around. It's true. None of us want that. Yet, some women thrive for it. This is the common perception of a bad boy. I don't condone that. These women should consider counseling and these men should get a manly beat down. I on the other hand. I am an *******. I do not put up with trivial bull**** from women, I also do not not put up with trite bull**** from men either. I know what I want, and I normally get it. I don't placate women or treat them as if I have never seen a vagina before. Women are not what Valentines day says they are. Do I value the company of a women? I sure do, just as much a they value my company. Despite being an ******* I am actually a pretty cool guy. Just look at some of the responses I get from my comments here on these forums. *Gasp* How dare you say that about women. Truth is, I don't give a damn what the females on this forum may think. I am not politically correct and I will never be. I have the ability to walk away from a female at the first sign of her trying to change me. I am who I am, and there is not a damn thing they can do about it. Now, don't think I arrived at this conclusion lightly. I didn't. I have seen women do things I could not have ever imagined. Horrible evil things. Some even trying to convince me there was something wrong with ME! And I bought into it for a while. Big mistake. HUGE! What I am getting at is this. You treat women like your bratty sister and they will respond. You ignore them, they respond. You insult them they respond. Women love attention, and it doesn't matter if it is negative attention. They respond. Just like the response I got from one female honest enough to respond in this thread when I said all women love drama. Her post was pretty damn dramatic, wasn't it? Those women that go out with convicts, yeah they are damaged. But to assume all women that want to go out with bad boys is low quality is just plain wrong. It is not true. When was the last time you heard a female say; the date was incredible it was drama free, he was a complete bore and totally mundane. I was so HOT afterwards? You don't hear that. Yet, you have pussy boys out there that think women have a magic vagina, when in fact the men have the golden cock.
Woggle Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 How about instead of all those options you just find a grown woman who doesn't need to turn a relationship into some stupid power game?
AverageJoe Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 How about instead of all those options you just find a grown woman who doesn't need to turn a relationship into some stupid power game? I am not sure I follow your question, Woggle. As far as options, I like having them.
Woggle Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 I am not sure I follow your question, Woggle. As far as options, I like having them. If a woman is playing those stupid games then drop her and move on to better quality. Don't even stay around to play the games.
AverageJoe Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 If a woman is playing those stupid games then drop her and move on to better quality. Don't even stay around to play the games. I don't. And who is to say there is only one quality women. Is a teacher a quality women? Is a mortgage originator a quality women? How about women who is an Obstetrician. Wow, I don't know what it is lately but I have been meeting a lot of those in the medical field.
Mrlonelyone Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 The argument here is simply based on people using that old stupid "bad boy" Vs "nice guy" logic. Average Joe. It may be hard to belive but when most of us say and think bad boy we mean someone really bad. A convicted felon, drug addict/drug dealer, a gangster (or just a wannabe gangster), a physically violent and abusive man...those are who I think of...those are who most of us think of when we think "bad boy". You on the other hand are not "bad" you just have backbone. The whole thing is a false dichotomy. Plenty of "nice" guys have backbone...plenty of "bad" boys are cowardly as soon as they are challenged. That said there are women out there who seem to need a man who's a sociopath or else their panties just don't get wet.
AverageJoe Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 The argument here is simply based on people using that old stupid "bad boy" Vs "nice guy" logic. Average Joe. It may be hard to belive but when most of us say and think bad boy we mean someone really bad. A convicted felon, drug addict/drug dealer, a gangster (or just a wannabe gangster), a physically violent and abusive man...those are who I think of...those are who most of us think of when we think "bad boy". You on the other hand are not "bad" you just have backbone. The whole thing is a false dichotomy. Plenty of "nice" guys have backbone...plenty of "bad" boys are cowardly as soon as they are challenged. That said there are women out there who seem to need a man who's a sociopath or else their panties just don't get wet. You make a valid point, and it should not go without merit. Yes, there are unstable women that do go for that extreme example. Unfortunately, this example has turned into what men and women think the definition of a bad boy is. Yeah, they are bad for sure. Bad to the extreme of having a criminal record and a few teeth missing. Again, let me lay this to rest. These are not the general women you want to go out with, yet when you bring up the bad boy talk, it surfaces. A bad boy is not a person that is physical with a woman. That person is a criminal. Just cleanse your mind of that. However, with that being said, yes there are women out there that are drawn to that. Yet, that is not indicative to most women. It just isn't. If you want to know who they are just pick up the latest release of jailbird newsletter. I bad boy is a man that is a real man, that has big brass balls and not afraid to use them.
Pyro Posted February 12, 2011 Posted February 12, 2011 You, like many people have a skewed perception of a bad boy. One who may abuse women, physically, or mentally. Let me lay this to rest. These are not bad boys (yet they are). What I mean by that is there are these low quality, skank, women that WILL go for being smacked around. It's true. None of us want that. Yet, some women thrive for it. This is the common perception of a bad boy. I don't condone that. These women should consider counseling and these men should get a manly beat down. I on the other hand. I am an *******. I do not put up with trivial bull**** from women, I also do not not put up with trite bull**** from men either. I know what I want, and I normally get it. I don't placate women or treat them as if I have never seen a vagina before. Women are not what Valentines day says they are. Do I value the company of a women? I sure do, just as much a they value my company. Despite being an ******* I am actually a pretty cool guy. Just look at some of the responses I get from my comments here on these forums. *Gasp* How dare you say that about women. Truth is, I don't give a damn what the females on this forum may think. I am not politically correct and I will never be. I have the ability to walk away from a female at the first sign of her trying to change me. I am who I am, and there is not a damn thing they can do about it. Now, don't think I arrived at this conclusion lightly. I didn't. I have seen women do things I could not have ever imagined. Horrible evil things. Some even trying to convince me there was something wrong with ME! And I bought into it for a while. Big mistake. HUGE! What I am getting at is this. You treat women like your bratty sister and they will respond. You ignore them, they respond. You insult them they respond. Women love attention, and it doesn't matter if it is negative attention. They respond. Just like the response I got from one female honest enough to respond in this thread when I said all women love drama. Her post was pretty damn dramatic, wasn't it? Those women that go out with convicts, yeah they are damaged. But to assume all women that want to go out with bad boys is low quality is just plain wrong. It is not true. When was the last time you heard a female say; the date was incredible it was drama free, he was a complete bore and totally mundane. I was so HOT afterwards? You don't hear that. Yet, you have pussy boys out there that think women have a magic vagina, when in fact the men have the golden cock. so to sum it up you say that a bad boy is someone who has confidence in himself and will not let others take advantage of him? I'd say he is more of a well balanced guy who will get the best quality of women......as long as he keeps that balance between not being overly nice or overly rude/disrespectful.
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