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My ex-girlfriend and I broke up in late October. In late November she sent this text....Hey there! Hope you're well. Are you back to work? In mid December she texted this....Hey, just thought of you randomly. Hope you're well. Are you playing tennis again? Hope all is well. I'm doing great!

 

On Jan. 22nd I got this message on Facebook....subject: Hello!

 

Hey there, just wanted to say hi. I hope you're doing well. I doing great. Things are really going well. I truly hope the same is true for you. Planning to get back into running once the weather warms up a bit (I like to run first thing in the morning.) I'm really looking forward to it....I miss running, it's a huge part of who I am. Are you playing tennis again?

 

Hope all is well...

 

Take care, and I'd love to hear from you...

 

I've ignored all 3 messages. So my question is....what do ya'll think she is up to?

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she sounds like she wants some penis.

 

give it to her, then toss her out the house! jk. no im not.

 

Honestly sounds like shes fishing. Just keep on keeping on with that NC bruh.

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My ex-girlfriend and I broke up in late October. In late November she sent this text....Hey there! Hope you're well. Are you back to work? In mid December she texted this....Hey, just thought of you randomly. Hope you're well. Are you playing tennis again? Hope all is well. I'm doing great!

 

On Jan. 22nd I got this message on Facebook....subject: Hello!

 

Hey there, just wanted to say hi. I hope you're doing well. I doing great. Things are really going well. I truly hope the same is true for you. Planning to get back into running once the weather warms up a bit (I like to run first thing in the morning.) I'm really looking forward to it....I miss running, it's a huge part of who I am. Are you playing tennis again?

 

Hope all is well...

 

Take care, and I'd love to hear from you...

 

I've ignored all 3 messages. So my question is....what do ya'll think she is up to?

 

Well actually the answer depends on whether you were the dumper or dumpee.

 

If she's the one who dumped you, then right now she is fishing and you cannot respond to her. She will call soon enough after 3 messages and even at that point you cannot respond. If you want to get back together with her then you honestly don't respond to her until she says those words to you in either a voicemail or in person. But until then stay strong in NC. If you don't want to get back together and don't want to be friends you should let her know that at some point. It all depends on what you want.

 

If you were the dumper on the other hand, she is probably just trying to reconnect with you on a friend basis. Or on the other hand wants to get back together with you because she's still not over you. Both of those are pretty equally likely.

 

-Gator

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