m2s Posted February 9, 2011 Posted February 9, 2011 My ex walked out and left my son and i in November (moved out in December). He cheated and moved in with his girlfriend straight away. We have recently been talking about property settlement and he wants me to pay him out. I cant afford to do this, and told him we need to sell the house. Yesterday we had a phone conversation where it got very heated and he started yelling at me, and so i told him we wernt discussing this anymore and he had no right to talk to me like that, and hung up on him. I then had 50 missed calls on my phone as well as calls to work, numerous text messages saying to call him, and voice mail messages. Anyways this evening he broke into the house while my son and i were here. I dont get why he is spending all this time ringing, texting and trying to contact me. Nothing more can be sorted. Do you think he still cares? Why do you think he is going to these lengths to get to talk to me? I love this man, with all my heart and would take him back in a heartbeat if it came to it. Crazy I know.....
Author m2s Posted February 9, 2011 Author Posted February 9, 2011 In november we went on a family holiday (we have a 2 year old) and when we got back on the saturday he said that he needed to talk to me. The tuesday he said that he wasnt happy anymore and he needed to go and be happy. He then found a rental place and moved out in December. I found out later that he had found another woman (and she moved in with him into this rental) and they are now "together" He dropped off our son a few weeks ago and said to me that the reasons he left were: I got fat with the birth of our son I didnt vaccum the house enough i always put on comfy clothes after work i didnt do my hair and makeup all the time We didnt go out enough Okay in my defence I had a baby. The text messages, basically said call me back, why are you not calling me back, I want you to call me back ASAP. Along those lines, no declaration of love. I just find it strange that he would try ringing me at least 50 times in a 24 hour period. If someone i didnt care about didnt answer my calls i wouldnt really give a crap or try ringing that many times.
Author m2s Posted February 9, 2011 Author Posted February 9, 2011 Also just wanted to say, I HAD NO IDEA that he even felt like this. We NEVER EVER fought, we got along like a house on fire, and we were even looking at buying another property together the weekend before the holiday. He said tonight that i have a bad attitude as i was telling him to get out of my house (cos he broke into it) and thats why he left. I am so confused. I love this man, he is the father of my child.
spackle Posted February 9, 2011 Posted February 9, 2011 Also just wanted to say, I HAD NO IDEA that he even felt like this. We NEVER EVER fought, we got along like a house on fire, and we were even looking at buying another property together the weekend before the holiday. He said tonight that i have a bad attitude as i was telling him to get out of my house (cos he broke into it) and thats why he left. I am so confused. I love this man, he is the father of my child. He also called you a fat lazy slob because you had his child. Sounds like a catch.
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