poloralph Posted February 9, 2011 Posted February 9, 2011 Hi! So i need advice... I met this guy who leaves in a different state than I do. So we went out on a date ( after he came back again to the state I live for work) and we been texting/ talking since then... its been about 2 months then he invited me over to where he lives...paying for my flight tix etc... ( free miles). I think he is a nice guy ( everyone seems to love him from where he is from)-- we definitely got "involved" during my stay there... got to meet his friends and went to couple parties with him etc.... we still text/talk and he invites me to different states to go along with him ( since he travels). So my question in here is , is he stringing me along by inviting me to this different states to travel and meet him? what is your opinion when a guy asks a girl for that? or what does it mean?
Lilmisus Posted February 9, 2011 Posted February 9, 2011 It seems like he cares about you enough that he wants you along while he's traveling to spend time with you. Especially since he took care of your tickets, introduced you to his friends, has gone out with you, etc. If you're wondering what he's intentions are though, your best bet is to sit him down (or call him up) and simply ask. See what he's looking for from you, if it's a relationship or if it's just a traveling companion. From what you posted, there's nothing that points to the thought that he's stringing you along, unless there are other details that you aren't revealing. Just tell him what you're looking for, see what he is looking for, and go from there.
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