mmiller5373 Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 We were matched on eHarmony back in December. We emailed each other back and forth for about 3 weeks before I asked her out for drinks. She seems pretty interested in me, her emails tend to be pretty long, but she keeps rescheduling our meet up. How do I react to her last message? Here's what happened so far... 1/1 - I asked her out for drinks. 1/5 - She says she's busy with work (she's a nurse) that week. She doesn't counter-offer. 1/6 - I say, "let's do drinks next week." 1/10 - She replies saying that she can't do drinks next week because of work and then the following week she won't be able to either because of a little vacation time. She's going to visit the parents. She says the Wednesday (19th) she comes back should be a good time to meet up. 1/18 - She sends me an email saying she can't meet up that Wednesday because of work and that she's working 6 days straight, so it will be tough to meet up. She says she'll get back to me. 1/29 - She asks me what I'm doing on Saturday (2/5). I work 4am-12pm on weekends, so I tell her it's a little hard for me to go out on weekend nights. 1/31 - She jokes with me about me being an old man and says she's looking forward to meeting up. She asks about the following Wednesday (2/9). I reply and say that is a great night to meet up. We set up a location and time for 2/9. 2/8 - She emails me this "I know this is late notice, but I had to come in to work tonight & I haven't had time to email you until now. My schedule gets changed a lot depending on the amount of scheduled surgeries & patients etc. Anyway, I need to reschedule our plans.. Could we meet next Thursday, same place & time? I understand if that Thurs doesn't work for you, just let me know of another night. I hope you don't think I'm a total sketch. We're short staffed at work so I'm working extra days the next 2wks to help out. Thursday I will finally get several days off, so anytime that weekend would work also. I'm really looking forward to meeting you. How is your week going? Anything excting happening at work? Get back to me when you can " My question is... how do I react to this? The cancelling and rescheduling is getting a little old.
mo mo Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 This is pretty easy. You have tried to meet with her for over a month and failed. Think about what an actual relationship with her would be like. LAUNCH
Author mmiller5373 Posted February 8, 2011 Author Posted February 8, 2011 So just ignore it and forget her?
carhill Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 'Apparently, your interest in meeting is insufficient to match up with my expectations of what dating is supposed to be like. I'm closing out this match. Good luck'
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