Dante311 Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 Recently, I put my foot down with the toxic girl some of you had been reading about; this caused our breakup. We both talked about taking space. neither one of us has been able to abide by it... she contacts me, i contact her... one of us ignores the other for a bit, then responds... it sucks. finally, i said F it. I basically blocked her number, etc, and hid my facebook info and wall from her but did not remove her in a chance to a) get over her and b) remove myself from her life so she doesn't creep on me (like she's been doing - she admitted to that) ....after ~24 hours of actual no contact, she makes a snide remark how she must be so special that I blocked her from seeing my FB and I may as well remove her from my friends because she's insulted I did it to her and not her friends.... I respond kindly and insisted it's for both our benefit and if I really wanted her out of my life, I would've removed her completely. Told her i refuse to argue with her and my brother just got engaged (he really did) and I'm busy, need to go. she apologized, congratulated me and said goodbye. later, we spoke on the phone (don't ask) and she thanked me and understood why I did what I did... we then spoke bout us and she admitted she's losing on a great thing, but isn't ready for it yet.. i told her i hope she's ready before it's too late. She then started talking about her ex she loves... I told her the only person you should vent to is him and then tell him to not contact you for awhile... and she understands this. I said miss you, she replied miss you too... and we wished our good nights to one another... immediately after, she texted me apologizing for mentioning her ex to me. I told her you know what she needs to do. She replied via text that she knows, but was apologizing for talking bout him. I told her sweet dreams and she knows where I stand. and that was it. she checking out/looking for closure from me? Or is there still interest and is afraid of letting go? We weren't together long and with the help of my buddy from her emotional abuse I've already begun checking out (and I think she is noticing that and is getting scared).... Link to post Share on other sites
Star Gazer Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 I've never in all my life seen a guy tolerate, nay, WELCOME this much drama in his life. I'm actually embarrassed for you. No self-respecting person - male or female - would continue on like this!! What are you doing to yourself, Dante?! Why do you care if she's checking out? Why aren't you already lonnnnnng gone? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Dante311 Posted February 8, 2011 Author Share Posted February 8, 2011 I've never in all my life seen a guy tolerate, nay, WELCOME this much drama in his life. I'm actually embarrassed for you. No self-respecting person - male or female - would continue on like this!! What are you doing to yourself, Dante?! Why do you care if she's checking out? Why aren't you already lonnnnnng gone? she's honestly a great girl, but still in love with her ex boyfriend... if she can get past THAT... I think we'd work well and everyone agrees. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted February 8, 2011 Share Posted February 8, 2011 Cool, leave her alone so she can process the end of her last relationship (or get her ex back, since she's *in love* with him) and enjoy the company of women who *are* over their ex'es. Black hole.... Link to post Share on other sites
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