Boom Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 Time went by since we broke up and I thought I was ready to hang out so I went to dinner with with me ex. We texted a lot and talk about stuff, I thought we were OK to move on and be friends, I just wanted to see her and hang out. I had dinner with her and she got upset and left. She told me she had sex with other people and regretted it and it was to hard for her. I thought we were OK, but she could not talk about stuff about us. I read a lot of stuff on here for a long time. Don't meet with your ex until you have moved on, wait until you have moved on! If you still love them with everything you have and they don't want to be with you it hurts...like I said we broke up awhile ago and I somewhat moved on, but seeing them when you have not moved on totally will only hurt you.. I made the mistake to see her before I was over her and it only messed things up for myself. We went to dinner after we kissed passionately after. I told her how I felt, I confessed everything I felt and it didn't help at all. It only hurt me because she said she had to move on.
PowerOfOne Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 Thanks for the reminder. This is my greatest fear. No matter how far along I think I've come or how over it I think I am - I've got to move on without looking back. I won't risk going back to day one over her for anything.
WindyCityGirl Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 In my own experience my boyfriend and I had a terrible break up. I cried for weeks. He finally contacted me via email and things still went down hill. After several days I called him and invited him to have coffee. Although I was nowhere near over him I needed to have a pleasant experience to replace the negative one. He's a good guy who just doesn't communicate well. I am still madly in love with him but the good thing is I was able recognized my own personal growth in being able to sit down with him and enjoy the conversation. If you are meeting with the person to get them back things might not work in your favor. However if you begin to look at them as a friend and go about the situation with that frame of mind the interaction may not be disastrous.
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