Mixed28 Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 Do you think you or people in general tolerate more clinginess from different people they have relationships with. For example if someone likes you more than their ex they will tolerate more clinginess from you than their ex. Or do you think they have the same tolerance no matter who they are with? Keep in mind we are not talking about the extreme clingy calling every damn hour and being a controlling @$$. I mean really affectionate clingy.
Emilia Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 yeah, my tolerance has changed, I'm much more understanding of someone's being clingy - in a friendly/affectionate way the only time I don't like it is when I feel the other person is placing responsiblity on my shoulders for their happiness completely, ie making every single of my actions count. that's unfair and annoying. attention and friendly chit chat are not problem though at all, I'm very social
muse08 Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 IMO, I think it just depends on how attracted I am to someone and how sincere they appear to be. However, if they "sincerely" controlling or "sincerely" crAzy...then I have very little to no tolerance.
january2011 Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 In my opinion and experience, every relationship dynamic is unique and fluid as people and circumstances change and therefore, clinginess level and its tolerance are going to be unique and fluid.
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