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Hi Everyone:) I need some help here! Been with my BF for a year and a half. He does not trust ANYONE do to his job. So just this last weekend was the first time he left me alone while he went to work. (we live an hour apart) and of course I snooped:) I know bad:p I didnt find anything but alot of porn and pictures of his ex wife. But then I went to check my e-mail and he had un-plugged his computer so I couldnt get on. I had caught him on a dating site a few weeks ago, but he said it was from before he met me and he deleted it. I asked him why he un-plugged it and he said, "I didnt" then he said "why didnt you plug it back in" and then he got mad at me! and said "see if I leave you alone again"

He says I am the one, he wants to marry me someday ect...but yet I have NO key to his house, this was the first time alone. I dont get it.

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If someone was intent upon seriously snooping on me, they wouldn't get a key to my apartment either! You need to chill out.

 

This is not to say that if you think he's on a dating site or cheating you should ignore your instincts, but snooping through his stuff and even confronting him about it!?!?!? That's not the way to go.

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