Content Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 I realize nobodies everyones cup of tea but it annoys me sometimes especially if its someone i know I heard one time these girls in our social group were hanging out one of the subjects was men in our group and i was brought up and this girl whos my buddies wife and like a sister to me said i love insert my name but i find him physically unattractive I felt petty that it annoyed me but knowing someone i see allot thinks im unattractive bothered me for some reason:laugh:
D-Lish Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 That would have an affect on most people. What would bother me more is the person that was so insensitive to actually tell you that! I'd never tell a good friend that someone mentioned they weren't attractive, that just seems like a mean thing to say to someone.
Author Content Posted February 8, 2011 Author Posted February 8, 2011 That would have an affect on most people. What would bother me more is the person that was so insensitive to actually tell you that! I'd never tell a good friend that someone mentioned they weren't attractive, that just seems like a mean thing to say to someone. she didnt tell me that a friend who overheard it did
D-Lish Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 she didnt tell me that a friend who overheard it did It doesn't matter who told you- that's a hurtful comment, and no one should have brought it up to you.
dispatch3d Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 Yeah, it's offensive. I'd tell them it's mean (at the very least). I don't get people who do that kind of stuff. The last time a friend of mine told me I was "unattractive" i left. I can hang out with other people who are nice to me, I'm not there to be abused by my friends.
mortensorchid Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 Doesn't matter if it was someone you knew or not, that was just plain rude. It would bother anyone quite honestly.
quietGuy13 Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 You learn to accept it as life goes on. LIke one time i was talking to these women in the bus. Foreign tourists they were. And i was so happy and excited but then i knew they weren't and i knew they must've sure thought i wasn't attractive cause they look at this other guy in the bus and they said to themselves im their language "look at that guy. he's hot". hehe, i knew what they said but they didn't know i could understand them. but anyways, it always happens. Girls like others, and think i'm unattractive. Well mostly that's what i think, they dont really say it to my face
soulm8 Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 she didnt tell me that a friend who overheard it did Reminds me of a conversation I had recently with my 5th grade daughter... and I told her... Don't believe everything you hear... sometimes "friends" say mean things because they're actually jealous of you and want some power over you.
zengirl Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 Telling you about it seems petty. I, personally, don't find any of my male friends attractive (some are aesthetically handsome, but in a clinical no chemistry way), and by virtue of being my male friends, I assume they know they're not my cuppa physically. So some of it also depends on how it's said, I guess. It doesn't bother me if I'm not someone's cuppa. However, if they went on about my perceived flaws or how ugly I was to them, or something of that ilk, of course that'd sting.
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