jessydog Posted March 24, 2004 Posted March 24, 2004 i would like your opinions please my girlfriend walked out 6 days ago with my 2 year old son who means everything to me.(no one else involved) but its hurting me so much thinking that in the future another man could be bringing up my child.I still see him every day after work but i am tired after working nights i get home at 12pm and pick him up he goes with her at 3pm for those 3 hours my life is complete even with out her but why do i still want her she has told lies about me she even to the local council housing department that i was assalting her just so they would give her a house they saw through her lies but still put her in a hostel for battered women. we used to argue all the time partly because of the long hours i work which leaves me tired and because when i get out of bed i have to do the house work because she wouldn't do anything i know im better off with out her but why do i still love her after 7 years together its hurting inside im trying to get my life together now for the sake of my little boy im changing jobs soon hopefully and with a bit of luck i can learn from my experiances and be a better person for them. i guess we just grew apart from each other but at the moment she can only see the bad times we had i hope in future we can be friends for our sons sake but its going to be hard i am just hope this doesn't get me down and that we each can live life to the full thanks for taking the time to read this any info on how i can get over her would be greatfully accepted
zoezeroseven Posted March 28, 2004 Posted March 28, 2004 Seven years is a long time. I know, because I left my bf of six years a week ago. I'm even the one who initiated the break and the dumbest things we break me up, like one of his socks I found behind the couch--> insta-tears. I think that we'll be OK as long as we keep going through the motions of everyday life and wait for time to heal all (or at least numb the pain). It must be very hard for you to see her all the time to get your son and to know she told lies (I hope) about you. Focus on your son, not her and good luck.
Author jessydog Posted March 28, 2004 Author Posted March 28, 2004 thanks. its going to take time to get over our problems but i know there's someone out there thats going to make me happy. who knows i could go out today and meet the girl of my dreams. thanks again for your input and i hope you can find someone that to make you happy
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