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engaged man who has feelings for another woman


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My ex is currently engaged. By the time I had come back into his life he was already engaged to someone else. I told him how I feel but he already made the commitment and cannot leave her just like that. It has been a year long engagement and there has been no wedding date set up till now. I know that they don't have a very stable relationship and fight constantly, but they are engaged after all. He confessed that he has feelings for me and sometimes thinks that we would be more compatible than he and his fiancee. However, we are not meeting behind his fiancee's back out of respect for their relationship. The last time we talked was months ago. It would destroy me to find out they set a date. I always have this hope that they will not work out and I can't seem to let it go. I cannot move on and I have tried to date many others that are emotionally available to me but it never seems to work and I always end up missing him. Is there any hope that they will break up? Is it better for me to disappear from his life (like I am doing now) or should I contact him as a friend and just stay in his life in case things don't work out later on?

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