MissMurder Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 Background info: 1 year together, 5 months since the breakup, 1 month of being "friends", 1.5 months LC, 2.5 months NC, he broke up with me So I'm going to a concert in a couple weeks with a guy friend of mine. My exbf, after some snooping, found out about it and started asking mutual friends about me, showing up in places I had never seen him, and wearing "our" shirt with his pet name stitched on it (I noticed that he's been wearing this shirt a lot lately). I think he thinks that I'm going out with this new guy, but I'm not; we're just friends. One day my ex saw me "flirting" with that guy friend and a couple hours later texted me "Have you moved on?" after over 2 months of not saying a word to me. In these 2 months of NC I have been trying to get my life back and have been trying to move on, but that text took me back to square one even though I did not reply. I deleted that text and went on with my day. The next day, he bombards me with more texts practically begging me to talk to him ("Can you please just talk to me?" etc). Not sure of what to do, I didn't reply and just deleted them. The next day, he saw me holding hands with yet another guy friend of mine (we were just messing around). This was all 5 days ago, and I haven't heard from him since. Anyway, I know I shouldn't care about this guy because he broke my heart into a million pieces, and I know I shouldn't care about what he wanted to say to me, but now I'm just curious... I was thinking of waiting to see if he'll try talking to me again before I go to the concert and if not, I would make the move after the concert. I really wanted to reply to his texts but I didn't want him to rain on my parade. I want to at least have fun at the concert before I try to talk to him and find out what he wanted to say to me. What do you guys think? /:
jumpmanb Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 Hi, Reading this really does sound like he's got jealous and it's trying to get ur attention again! I've been on both sides of this before i was with a girl for nearly 2 years and wasn't really that into her so i finished it,she spent next month or so turning up at my door begging and crying for me back inwas really nasty to her and told her to leave me alone! Then never heard from her again! But after a month i saw her with a bloke and that started me thinking about what we had, then I phoned her and she was very cold towards me then for next few weeks I was begging her for another chance! Even though she thought about getting me back she stayed with the new bloke! And on the other side my recent ex split up with me a few years back and situation was other way round I wanted her back but she didn't want me after a month of trying I gave up and made alot of female friends which she saw me with and then she txt me after 3months from the split saying I miss you? And I got back with her! So what I'm saying is if you want him back you really should see what he wants as he may of realised what he had with you! But on the other hand if you don't want him back it's sticking to no contact as there's no need to find out if he wants you or not! I personally would stick to no contact til after the concert then say to him why are you texting when you didn't wanna b with me! What does it matter if I've moved on! Good luck keep me up to date with what happens!!
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