choproyd Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 Hi All, Just wanted to get peoples thoughts on my situation and how I should proceed? Basically, I have known a girl for just under 2 years. We always got along great but were just friends. Around Christmas time we started talking a lot more and over the past few weeks have went out a few times. The times we have went out have been a lot of fun, I can talk to this girl for hours and hours. After going out on the weekend and dropping her off we shared a little goodnight kiss. We text all the time and already have plans to do things next week. Whats racking my brain is we have never really talked about whats going on, should I just let things play out and see what happens? Should I bring up the topic of the two of us entering a relationship? Im just not really sure how to proceed, I feel like I know this girl very well already. If it was just a random girl I dont think I would be having these thoughts after a few dates? The fact that my experience in relationships is minimal at best doesnt help things either. Anyhow, just needed to write these things down. Thanks for any advice.
Jonno_S Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 Hi All, Just wanted to get peoples thoughts on my situation and how I should proceed? Basically, I have known a girl for just under 2 years. We always got along great but were just friends. Around Christmas time we started talking a lot more and over the past few weeks have went out a few times. The times we have went out have been a lot of fun, I can talk to this girl for hours and hours. After going out on the weekend and dropping her off we shared a little goodnight kiss. We text all the time and already have plans to do things next week. Whats racking my brain is we have never really talked about whats going on, should I just let things play out and see what happens? Should I bring up the topic of the two of us entering a relationship? Im just not really sure how to proceed, I feel like I know this girl very well already. If it was just a random girl I dont think I would be having these thoughts after a few dates? The fact that my experience in relationships is minimal at best doesnt help things either. Anyhow, just needed to write these things down. Thanks for any advice. Well, do you need to talk about that stuff? Would you like to? Then why not? The girl's in love with you. Tell her you love her man. Who cares what label you put on it?
Eddie Edirol Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 Ugh, you dont talk about a relationship before you make out with her. She probably wants to, just make THAT happen. Dont worry about talking about a relationship, let her initiate that. You just initiate hanging out, showing her good respect, and make her feel like a woman.
Author choproyd Posted February 7, 2011 Author Posted February 7, 2011 Thanks for the advice. I think im just going to let things happen as they happen. My hangup is not really knowing what we are? As someone mentioned we havent made out yet, so hopefully things will fall into place as more happens..
Author choproyd Posted February 8, 2011 Author Posted February 8, 2011 Just wondering if anyone else had any input. The 2 replies seem split, so looking for a tie breaker!
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