Brocke Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 Hello all. I should start that I did breakup with her. It was a long distance that lasted awhile about 4months but slowly faded it seemed. Im feeling alone and such its been two months since the breakup. I came across some letters she has wrote to me. That right there made me realize i was a Fool. and now shes on my mind. I had Text her to say hi. we Spent a few hours texting. Talked about the breakup and such. everything seems great. Until she had said im seeing someone now and im happy. id want to be friends. I falt so heart broken reading that. She had told me she loved me during our relationship and that all i could think about . I feel so bad and want her back. I was so dumb for leaving her but i didnt realize it until after. now i feel ive lost her. we had such a strong bond but the distance killed it. I dont know what to do. I feel that ive lost her:( I dont know what to do.
Author Brocke Posted February 13, 2011 Author Posted February 13, 2011 this week pasted week her bf saw a email i sent her and they fought about it. well in the next two days he logged on to her stuff such as IM and started talking to me. she has asked for space and i gave it to her but in the IM's they was all negitive saying such things i dont love you. i want you to leave me alone. etc. anyway he deleted me off of her FB, and messengers. the next day she sends me a text why did you block me on everything? all i said was you go what you want me gone and out of ur life. you did the blocking not me. then she said what are you talking about? then i told her about the night. come to find out it was her BF whom she love. (thats a on and off relationship) she best friend called me and told me about him. hes a jerk she crys to her because hes mean when they are apart. lies to her. He even cheated on her and had a baby. and she still got back with him. God Tomorrow is gunna suck. i guess im just using this as a out let. Sad, happy, thinking should i end it all and move on? shes the only one who understood me, my life. she said that her feelings havnt changed for me at all. Her friend told me leave her alone, wait if i want her in my arm again she'll come back. I gave her this weekend that she asked for to "find" herself. but reading all the "i love yous" on FB just hurts like i said i did the breakup we was fading but the time apart made up stronger and made me love her more but now ive lost it all. Thank you all for reading Best of luck to all the people on monday. Ill keep my head up and so can you. take care Brock
Author Brocke Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 well we talked it out. We are really close friends and I have a question that i need advice now. This wensday after work im driving to her friends house to drop a few things off for her. Im hopeing this could be a small turning point of bring her back to me or at least make her think of me more. any advice how to handle or act without being stuiped lol. thanks Brock
gator12 Posted February 14, 2011 Posted February 14, 2011 Drop the things off and then leave. Be polite throughout and lighthearted but dont make it look like you're clinging to her every word. Make it short so that way you have less of an opportunity to mess things up. Oooo and most importantly be confident. -Gator
Author Brocke Posted February 14, 2011 Author Posted February 14, 2011 Drop the things off and then leave. Be polite throughout and lighthearted but dont make it look like you're clinging to her every word. Make it short so that way you have less of an opportunity to mess things up. Oooo and most importantly be confident. -Gator Thank you for the input. Ill make sure ill do all of that.
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