timchambo Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 How did it end up? Or how are you dealing with it? My story: We were together for over 7 years. High school sweet heart. Provided for her and supported her for last 4 years to chase her dream job. Finally lands her dream gig. She left me days before the holidays and leaves me for guy she worked with. Our last contact was me telling he I don't want to talk and I know she left me for another guy. No idea how it will play out. Curious as to everyone elses story and how it played out or where your at today.
donovant91 Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 Hey buddy. Have replied to your threads before, sorry things aren't working out for you right now. My ex and I were together for 5 years. Mostly a long distance relationship but we were also high school sweet hearts. Would visit each other every holiday. I was worried about her because of our long distance relationship it took a strain on our social lives and she was becoming depressed, so I told her she should spend more time with friends, and she reconnected with an old high school friend of hers that was a guy of course, but she said they were just friends and I trusted her. I was trying to finish all my college courses early so I could fly out and spend christmas with her longer, so I wasn't able to pay as much attention to her the last month or two we were together. I fly out to see her, and she neglects and shuns me when im there. She leaves to see her friend while im visiting, and comes back to her house late and breaks up with me for him. She sends me on a plane back home after 3 days of me being there, when I planned the trip for 4 weeks and obviously hooks up with the new guy. They are still together and in the honeymoon phase, and they are also in a long distance relationship. Everytime I go NC 2 weeks or so later she frantically tries to contact me because she doesn't want to lose me completely, and probably thinks I'm some sort of safety net.
darran Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 slightly over 2 years together. Living together. Left me for some nice guy type... 3 months later she dumped him.... still hasnt come back yet!
Fern Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 Six years together, I supported him financially for most of that. He cheated on me with a co-worker and then strung me along for another 2 weeks after I found out by pretending he wanted to 'fix' things. After I moved out I discovered he was still in contact with this girl. I made sure her fiancee (and father of her child) found out what was going on. He dumped her. Now my ex and this girl are officially together and seem madly in love and having a whale of a time planning holidays and playing happy families with her kid. He's a loser but I'm still pretty bitter about the whole thing. Wish I could let the bitterness go. Not sure how to do that.
melenkurion Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 Eight years together, "married" for two. he conducted a physical and an emotional affair with our friend over the summer. I found out for certain in October (phone messages). He immediately moved out, lived with a friend for two weeks, and with Other Guy for three weeks after that, until he got his own place. They are pursuing a relationship, as far as I know. I am still a bit too hung up about it, but bit by bit I am caring less. I was checking up on them until about a month ago. Now that I have (almost) stopped that I feel much, much better. I've made some new friends in the last few weeks (I joined an acting group), and that has helped enormously with getting them out of my head. It comes and goes: a week ago I was quite angry with myself for spending so much time thinking about them. This weekend I barely gave them a thought.
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