jumpmanb Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Hi everyone! Im new to this site and am needing some advice and help on my current situation! I was with my ex for 7years im 32 and she 25, we always had are ups and downs and split up twice before one time was only 2weeks but the last time was for 3 months that was about 3 years ago, for the 1st month i begged and pleaded with her for another chance and she never even contacted me back, then i came across a site which told me that is worst way to be towards her,so i started sorting my life out and went no contact for 2 months and she messaged me out of the blue saying i miss you can we meet up and we did and took things slowey and got back togever and had been living together for 3 years, We 1st split up because shes loves to go clubbing and when shes out she drinks so much that she usually passes out she also kissed another bloke which i found hard and i think thats where the rowls started i just didnt trust her or like how drunk she was getting, plus i think i lost myself in the relationship i was becoming needy and smoothering thats why she left me back then!! i used the time to sort myself out,but as i say we got back togever after that and we were happy again for a while after. But even though id sorted myself out she started back to clubbing at least once a week again and still drinking loads and getting in really late and the rowls started again! but during the week we would be the perfect couple its just when the saturday nite would come round and shes a different person when drunk really flirty with other guys! then sundays would always b back to getting on really well.. Anyway a month ago after a rowl on a saturday nite she said to me on the sunday afternoon that she needs a break as shes not sure what she wants from life, and then started crying like ive never seen before usually shes cold as ice with emotions, but she said she really loves me and i had been perfect to her and she could b making the biggest mistake in her life but its not fair on me staying with me when shes not sure what she wants she said shes been with me since since 18 and wants to see the world and have some experence living on her own! she also added that i mite not be able to live without you but i have to try it! i agreed that if she isnt happy thats the best thing to do! so she moved all her stuff out and i went no contact straight away! and have only replied to 3 txts that she sent me asking bout stuff she had left behind! i miss her like mad 7 years with her and alot of memories but i wont be breaking no contact but i do wonder whether she will realise she left a trust worthey decent guy that done what he could for her!! im not holding out for her to come back and am living my life again just like i did last time! What do you guys think about my situation will she be back!!
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