tobydog1 Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Long and difficult situation..... But can it be that my stbx cannot look us in the face cuz he is having an affair. I know he feels bad about it, and cheapened, he can't admit it to me either. But it has to be true that he is. And I believe he hates himself for it. Could I be right?
willowthewisp Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Tobydog, I honestly don't know, but i do know from your posts that your H isn't all that, he's not worth your tears hun, you didn't deserve what he has done.
Yasuandio Posted February 7, 2011 Posted February 7, 2011 You gut instinct about the affair is most likely spot on, and hense, his inability to look you in the eye, much less confess. I regret to suggest this Tobydog, but he may just "hate" the process that is preventing him to enjoy his relationship (technically affair) openly, rather than hating himself. He has free will, and if true, choses to have the affair (i.e., there are other options available - MC, admitting and stopping the affair, reconcilation, IC, etc.). But, it appears that you will no longer be a couple, per your reference "STBX." So, are you right? Is he having an affair? Again, you are the best judge of that. If you yourself suspect it, it's most likely true. Therefore, does he hate himself for it? Time will tell.
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