Meeting a talkative outgoing Girl. how to do well if you're shy/inexperienced?

[quietGuy13]

Just meeting for language learning, i found her in craiglist.

 

might meet today(NOT SURE cause she hasn't answered much to my emails so i dont' know if she will answer today)cause she finally answered my email. But i feel like i dont really want to cause she might hate me.

 

Anyways, she seems to be outgoing, talker . She's a foreigner but from the email and what i investigated about her online( and i found her in a website which even had pictures) she seems to be the kind that likes to party and has lots of friends.

 

But anyways, we just gonna do language learning but i feel bad cause she said "let's meet at a cafe" and i'm a guy that never even goes to cafe's. I'm antisocial so far. And i don't feel comfortable especially when other people are hearing me.

 

Plus she may judge me cause i'm not the typical loud american that she possible expects.

 

How would i make it so that it goes ok and i don't feel like crap and also i do'nt ruin her expectations.

 

BTW.. for me, even though this is not a date, for me it's LIKE a date cause i usually never meet women.

 

i'm 31 male

[Questionis]

You'll be fine. If you are quiet and shy it will show, but if she is nice, she won't make too much of a big deal out of it.

However, having a one sided conversation is hard work. You can help yourself by listening carefully to what she is saying and asking related questions. Has something similar happened to your or any of your friends? Mention that , will keep the convo going.

Also, you need to have some back up convo, get a list of things you will talk about if there are gaps in the conversation.

Good luck :):)