poorguy Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 I'm just wondering WHY. I broke up with mine 8 months ago. She got a new guy right away and moved in with him. I stopped talking to her because I didn't see the point. Months later came all the apologies for hurting me. I haven't talked to her since. However every so often she will text or email me something random that she already knows the answer to or could easily find out on her own. So why do they do things like this and what does it actaully mean???
Soxfaninfl Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 I would delete her messages and not respond to them. When she sees that you longer respond to her messages, she will get the picture that you don't want any contact with her. She probably wants some contact with you and still has feelings for you.
ginger337 Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 She may hope to create a bit of a conversation and establish a sort of friendship with you. As Soxfaninfl said, she may also still have feelings for you. Maybe things are going sour with her relationship and she realized she made a huge mistake, or is remincising about all the good memories and is missing you now. If you really don't want any contact with her I think you should tell her upfront.
Questionis Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Because if you break up with someone, means you can't be in a relationship with them, not that you no longer care if they exist. The other comments do have some elements of truth to them, but you not going to let her use you as an emergency penis just because she sent you a few random texts are you? Surely you are healing and getting on with your life?????
alethean Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Because if you break up with someone, means you can't be in a relationship with them, not that you no longer care if they exist. The other comments do have some elements of truth to them, but you not going to let her use you as an emergency penis just because she sent you a few random texts are you? Surely you are healing and getting on with your life????? I'm sorry, but why did this make me laugh?
Emilia Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 However every so often she will text or email me something random that she already knows the answer to or could easily find out on her own. So why do they do things like this and what does it actaully mean??? My last ex doesn't want to talk to me anymore but I try contact occasionally because he is a great guy and I have a lot of respect for him. Our situation is rather unusual though in terms of reason for the breakup. I keep in touch with my ex LTRs
SmileFace Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 haha, I was just thinking of texting my ex a question that I can easily find the answer to online. Now I am thinking against it. I text him because I miss him. Its not like I broke up with him, you know.
carhill Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 OP, were those apologies in person or via electrons? Why do people do what they do? Because they can, motivated by reasons uniquely their own and unknown to anyone else. If she chose to apologize to you in person, a simple one word question would have sufficed.... ''Why?" Listen. Such an event, for myself, would have been/will be the only vehicle to opening a dialogue. I did all my apologies in MC, in person.
Questionis Posted February 8, 2011 Posted February 8, 2011 I'm sorry, but why did this make me laugh? I don't know, maybe the use of emergency penis? Next time you look at a fire hammer behind a glass that says break in case of emergency, this will pop up in your head :laugh::laugh::laugh:
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