Kissbang Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 We had an uncomfortable moment in a fb conversation, I'm pretty much sure he thinks that I see him as more than a friend. It is as clear as... a clear thing. I admit that at first I thought I felt something. but guess not. we just click so well and.. I'm kinda flake myself, and never know what I want myself. So I've been thinking about it and even a friend told me that I don't really have romantic feeling for him and that I'm just confused, and she's right. I decided to write him a letter and express everything I feel in it and how I see him as a big older brother and that I care deeply about him and don't wanna lose him, coz our coversations make me feel good and fun and secure. Is it stupid to write down my feeling for him and the whole situation? Should I just let us disconnect and never speak to him again (coz that's what'll happen if not) or is it a good and a brave and appreciated thing and I should send it to his fb?
paddington bear Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 I wouldn't. Just wait for some more contact from him and if the topic comes up again, tell him you are flaky never know what you want and that you don't want to lead him on, that you like him, but not in that way.
Author Kissbang Posted February 6, 2011 Author Posted February 6, 2011 I wouldn't. Just wait for some more contact from him and if the topic comes up again, tell him you are flaky never know what you want and that you don't want to lead him on, that you like him, but not in that way. Oh no! He doesn't like me, he likes someone else.. he admitted so himself. It's just that I thought I had feelings for him, but I don't. And I also don't wanna lose him as a friend.. I've been thinking about sending it to him in a couple of days or so.
paddington bear Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 So... you thought you liked him but don't. he definitely likes someone else but not you And you are going to send him a long mail to explain this situation to him?! Are you SURE you don't like him as more than a friend? Otherwise, why go to all the trouble?
Author Kissbang Posted February 6, 2011 Author Posted February 6, 2011 So... you thought you liked him but don't. he definitely likes someone else but not you And you are going to send him a long mail to explain this situation to him?! Are you SURE you don't like him as more than a friend? Otherwise, why go to all the trouble? Coz he is special. and... I know we have some crazy chemistry between us. I know that he's attracted to me and that I'm attracted to him, but as ppl... and sexually. But on the emotional we're on different levels. He's stuck on this girl who doesn't even know and he's waiting for that crush to move on, and I'm an insecure person trying to figure myself out. But we're both good ppl, that's why I want to insist and try everything anew. Did you understand what I'm trying to say?
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