usagi Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 and I just had an evening out with some friends where it was revealed to me that right at the beginning of my relationship none of my friends liked my now ex, and during the following relationship very few actually warmed to her. I'm a little relieved and also a little narked. Could my friends have warned me, would I have listened?
sofiboo Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Hey! Same thing with me and my friends after I told them about my breakup. I guess its very hard to take their opinions seriously, it probably depends on how deeply in love you are with the person. In my case, I didn't listen to anyones' opinions or warnings for that matter, to the extent that I was in self-denial- you know, failing to grasp the reality of the situation by thinking that things will 'change' and 'get better'. Wow 1 year! How does it feel?
Author usagi Posted February 6, 2011 Author Posted February 6, 2011 Hey! Same thing with me and my friends after I told them about my breakup. I guess its very hard to take their opinions seriously, it probably depends on how deeply in love you are with the person. In my case, I didn't listen to anyones' opinions or warnings for that matter, to the extent that I was in self-denial- you know, failing to grasp the reality of the situation by thinking that things will 'change' and 'get better'. Wow 1 year! How does it feel? Good thanks. Her loss my gain. She came up in conversation last night because she is still running past my flat in London, what she doesn't know though is that I've moved I was out with my ex flatmate who still lives there so that's why it was mentioned.
Lemontang Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 lol. Ditto dude. Most of my friends didn't like an ex of mine and it's also been just over a year as well. Heck even my parents were wary of her. Turn's out she was skanking around behind my back for a good 6 months out of our 3 years. But what narked me was a lot of my friends knew this but didn't tell me until after I decided to break up with her. All I can say after one year I'm glad I dodged that bullet as I was about to ask her to marry me.
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