chancellor Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 I'm known as a guy who's pretty good with computers and people often ask for my advice. This girl in school asked me whether I'd come to her place to check out her computer. She's pretty and all so I accepted. We also have a few classes together and she's been pretty nice to me. When I sat at her desk, she moved in close enough that our legs were touching. We stayed like that for several minutes. At some point, she leaned over to grab something and her breasts clearly brushed against my arm. And when I pulled a joke she laughed and rested her head on my shoulder. Now I know she is a touchy feely type of girl. But even by those standards, do you think she's flirting with me? I don't know whether she has a boyfriend so this is kind of tricky.
bobdole Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Clear signs of flirting, boyfriend or no, touchy feely or no
welikeincrowds Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Flirting is by nature non-committal. The ambiguity of commitment to the sexy things you're saying and doing is what makes it exciting. So, don't think anything of it, except that this is an opportunity to (learn how to, maybe?) flirt back.
Eddie Edirol Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Yeah make yourself available for the flirting, but do not fall for it. let her work a lil harder and flirt more. See what she does when you go to her house, and dont actually fix the computer. See if she looks you in the eye and flirts more, you might be able to score something there.
Els Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 I have known girls to get all girly-girly on a guy just to get what they want (in this case, your assistance), and no other reason. I agree with the suggestion to hang out with her in other situations (where you are NOT providing assistance).
lone_island Posted February 9, 2011 Posted February 9, 2011 There were clear signs of flirting and it is safe bet to say she is interested, at least for now. How it will go from here though, no one knows for sure. She might change her mind after awhile. So, good luck! Another thing, a girl who knows how to flirt like that is probably quite experienced in this dating game, and it is pretty safe bet she has done this before.
Feelin Frisky Posted February 9, 2011 Posted February 9, 2011 I have been "worked" before for my expertise. Don't let yourself get used. She's flirting for sure but I've seen this and it's no sign of real interest. Play your cards close to the vest and assert yourself early on if you want her. Don't let her have all the power by just going along with her act.
Nexus One Posted February 9, 2011 Posted February 9, 2011 It's possible that she merely sees you as the go-to-guy for computer problems, however it's also possible that she "wants to have her computer fixed". *does the double quote thing with his hands/fingers* There's only one way to find out.
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