eastcoastgirl02 Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 I started dating this guy over the summer. I went off to grad school about 5.5 hours away from and we mutually agreed that we didn’t want anything serious at the moment. Me because I was starting grad school and I didn’t know how often I would make it home and I didn’t know how busy I would be with school work. Him because he didn’t want to do long distance. I have found out that I am home, for the most part every other week for about 5 days, and sometimes more frequently than that and my school isn’t as intense as I thought it was going to be like. He’s been traveling for work and has been away pretty much as long as I have been. I have seen him, for the most part, every time I’ve been home but only for one day out of a weekend. Here’s where I need advice. I am home a lot more frequently where I want to bring up possibly becoming exclusive if I am still seeing him this summer. How do I keep him interested in me during these next few months and show that I am interested in him, especially with the distance, without seeming like I’m needy? Please keep in mind that I am new to relationships and I, at times, feel like I don’t know how to act or what is appropriate. I also know that he has gone on dates with other girls and he has a dating profile up on a dating website but he still initiates contact with me and still acts interested in me. Thanks!
AverageJoe Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 It is very simple. And this goes for all females. Whatever it is you are doing that has him attracted. Don't ever stop doing that. Interest will dissipate when you stop doing whatever you are currently doing.
alphamale Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 It is very simple. And this goes for all females. Whatever it is you are doing that has him attracted. Don't ever stop doing that. you mean like good frequent sex and making him nice meals?
Mrlonelyone Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 You could try having an open and honest talk with him about how you feel. Any other approach only prolongs things if he's not on the same page as you...if you are on the same page then great.
AverageJoe Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 you mean like good frequent sex and making him nice meals? If that is what is working.
notsure15 Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 make sure you are both on the same page. talk first. if he is seeing other people and won't committ to you, steer clear and find someone who will. but if you are ok with being a F*** Buddy then stick at it. I would put down an ultimatum to get what i want and what will work for me!
xpaperxcutx Posted February 10, 2011 Posted February 10, 2011 In your spare time read the book The Art of Attraction by Robert Green. The only way to keep a guy interested is to play games, especially since he's multidating.
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