sanlucascerveza Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 been seeing a girl since november. im trying to figure out how she feels without asking her. We are clearly not in a relationship but see eachother every wk but We live about an hr and half away from eachother. She has been the one to make the trek to visit me each time so far. I always enjoy being around her and she says she does as well. We are intimate nearly every time we are together. The thing is we rarely talk when we are away from eachother which is fine. We will txt and she usually initiates. Im trying to figure out what her feelings are, what does everyone think
Eddie Edirol Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Dont worry about it. Dont make any expectations. Treat this as an FWB until she says otherwise. At some point, if she catches major feelings, she wont be able to help mentioning it, then the ball will be in your court. Just go with the flow, she will eventually start contacting you during the week as she grows attached to you, dont push it. She likes you a lil bit now, let her grow on you at her pace.
smudge21 Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 I agree with the above, but must add - be honest with her. If she tells you how she feels, tell her how you feel. It's clear you're both into each other and things are looking good, but go with the flow. Enjoy the thrill of how it all is and how it's going.
Author sanlucascerveza Posted February 6, 2011 Author Posted February 6, 2011 what do you mean by "go with the flow"
smudge21 Posted February 6, 2011 Posted February 6, 2011 Take things as they come. Don't try to over analyze everything. Enjoy the experience. You'll know when the time is right to move things on should you wish, but for now, just enjoy the fact that you're both having fun and clearly both interested in each other.
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